He is really talented at the drums and really kind but i have never been out with any one before and he doesn't know i exist so how do i make him notice me and not think that i am just a wierd girl who is younger than him and who watches him when he plays his drums my love life sucks i don't know if he is going out with any one but i will die of embarrament if he is and i make a move
2007-01-31 04:14:53 · 9 answers · asked by Pastinie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why don't you ask him to show you how to play the drums. That way you aren't showing a direct interest in him and you can be close to him. I'm sure that he'll notice you since you'll seem to have the same interests as him. Even if you don't like the drums...it's better than you staring at him while he plays :)
2007-01-31 04:21:39 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound young and so likely have not developed your outgoing personal relationship skills yet. It will come with age. Right now, if you are truly interested in getting to know this fella...Just work up your nerve and start a conversation with him. Ask him about his interests; the drums, for instance. How long has he played? Where does he play? Does he play any other instrument? You get the picture...that's the ice-breaker for you. Good Luck!
2007-01-31 04:26:01 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him how his girlfriend is, and if he asks why you asked, just say that a friend of yours told you he had a girlfriend. If he does, then you're gonna have to let him go, if not then just ask him a few more questions about little things that won't seem important to him but will give you a better understanding of what he is like. It's not strange for you to like him, and he probably won't think that it's stange. If he does then things might be a little difficult but you should be alright. Start by getting to know him, then, if you think you have a chance, ask him what you want to know.
2007-01-31 04:32:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say he is older than you? How old are you? You say you have never been off with anyone before, are you even old enough to date? Just guessing but if you are lets say 13 and him 15, then its probably a Crush and normal. He is old enough to know by now you are interested. Give him a little time, do not push it. If hes interested, he will make a move..
2007-01-31 04:22:32 · answer #4 · answered by donna_honeycutt47 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about u ask for his photograph...Make something unusual like slip in front of him or smile to him thoroughly...so ur presence will be noticed automatically by him...
And the rest is history,,,
2007-01-31 04:38:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of an age jus a number..it don really matter to me...but to somme ppl it does..i mean if u like some one u like them but if u don u don..u cant help ur emotions for some one..it jus comes naturally..
2007-01-31 04:29:36 · answer #6 · answered by skittles72 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how much you like listening to him play his drums then who knows...
good luck!
2007-01-31 04:20:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to him...find something you have in common..music? if he's not into you maybe you'll just end up being friends
2007-01-31 04:22:23 · answer #8 · answered by aerochik9675 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you fill about him. Do not be silly around him.
2007-01-31 04:23:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋