Do you send you girl home. I means I don't mind if I am driving. I depends on the public transport for travelling and it would be very difficult to see my girl home before returning home. If it's nearby, it's ok but sometimes if it is far. Sending her in a cab would be impractical because in the long term it's expensive and time consuming.
2007-01-31 04:10:43 · 16 answers · asked by ButterMilkQueso 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all I don't drive. We always date in city area till 11 plus to spend more time together. And she lives half hour away from city and me opposite direction also half hour from city. If I see her home, I won't be able to catch the last train home. And eg. cab fare from city to her house and back my house S$30. We date about 3-4 times per week. And the security of my country, Singapore, is very safe.
2007-01-31 04:42:45 · update #1
Be a gentleman. If you can't be bothered to make sure she gets home safely, you don't seem like someone who'd make a good boyfriend or husband. Is it all about your convenience, above her safety? nice guy, guy?
2007-01-31 04:16:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
A lot depends on whether or not she can expect to get home safely once you part ways. If not, then obviously it's a problem.
If you really like the girl, you should either: a. always make sure you drive so you "don't mind" taking her home; or b. try to make the dates close to her home so it's not such a big deal for you to escort her home (or to send her in a cab or whatever) before you go home.
EDIT: Well, if taking a cab from the city to her house (= X miles), from her house back to the city (= X miles) and all the way to your house (= X miles) costs S$30 (for a total of 3X miles), why not just put HER in a cab to her house (= X miles), which would only cost S$10? I mean, you don't have to go with her in a cab. Putting her in a cab by herself to return home is perfectly acceptable if you don't drive.
2007-01-31 04:21:09 · answer #2 · answered by kcbranaghsgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't think you're the one. Read He's Just Not That Into You. All this "confusion" is just him just trying to break it to you gently. It's been 4 years - bail out now. Sorry this hurts but he's basically saying 'wait around and waste your youth banging me until I find someone better'. The worst part is, the longer you stick around after he's said this to you, the less he'll respect you every day. He'll think, 'wow, she'll really take anything, even my lame excuses, she must really not think she's worth much'. You know what this is otherwise you wouldn't be on here asking. Find someone who is sure about you. Sorry honey, but time to let go. EDIT: He will of course say he wants to be with you. No guy will willingly give up regular sex and comfort. Fine, stay in your sham relationship. He's basically grooming you to either get dumped when he's still not sure about you in another 4 years, or get cheated on in your marriage and blamed for it because he "warned you". Don't bother asking for good advice if you just want to hear what you want to hear. Good luck. EDIT 2: Wow just read your other questions and have seen THIS GUY HAS CHEATED ON YOU ALREADY. And you're sitting here eating his bull and waiting for your ring. Wow he must be thrilled he's got you wrapped around his pinkie. What, is his d1ck made of gold or something? What the hell are you doing?? Girl, get a clue!
2016-03-28 22:23:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you could plan your dates with commuting time in mind. Have her find her own way to the date for an earlier start then end your evening 'out' at 9:30 or 10 and have some kind of entertainment (conversation, magazine or video game) planned for the commute to her home and a book to read on your way home.
Occasionally, sending her off on her own is o.k. but If it's too much of a bother to see her home, you may not like her enough.
2007-01-31 08:28:25 · answer #4 · answered by txkathidy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the mode of transportation that she arrived should be acceptable for how she goes home. If she lives far away...ask her if she wants to meet you there. She won't expect you to see her home if you didn't pick her up in the first place.
2007-01-31 04:18:48 · answer #5 · answered by Michelle M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy should always see a girl home. After all she was nice enough to go out with him. And he should make sure she gets home safe. She is a special angel and he should treat as one.
2007-01-31 04:16:34 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I'd mind. This is the reason ppl say shivelry is dead and it shouldn't be. If a guy didn't take me home, I wouldn't go on another date with him. Simple as that. Now there is an exception. If I drove to our date. But that's the only exception.
2007-01-31 04:26:06 · answer #7 · answered by gi_jane_kicks_ass 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I dont think the girls would mind BUT sometimes we like it because we get to spend more time with the one we love.
2007-01-31 04:15:08 · answer #8 · answered by Rosy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im a big girl I can get home by myself...sometimes its nice but other than that...if you cant you cant...aslong as you call for another date you wont hear anything bad said...
2007-01-31 04:15:31 · answer #9 · answered by ~Jamaica~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's OK, but it really sends a message that you don't care all that much. Don't expect to get really close with her since that's the message you're sending.
2007-01-31 04:14:51 · answer #10 · answered by shannonscorpio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋