My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3yrs. I'm 25 and he's 27. I Live with my father and he lives with his mother both due to money issues. He always use to come out here and stay with me like almost every night. He always wanted me to go with him while he shot pool for a pool league team. The past few months We no longer do much of anything anymore, He never asks if I want to go anywhere with him, He doesn't stay out here as much. He hasn't stayed here in almost 3 weeks. The last time he came to spend time with me was Friday night. anymore he spends his time with his 2 friends (that are guys). plays his xbox, or online poker. We can't do anything by ourselfs cause he has to have his friends with him. idk if he's too comfortable cause he knows i'm not going anywhere. But I wish I had the boyfriend back where he acted like he cared.. He says he still loves me to death, and I know he wouldn't cheat I trust him.. if you have any advice please let me know..
2007-01-31 03:32:02 · 7 answers · asked by Jen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I Have tried to talk to him about it. But all I get is that I Bi*ch too much and thats why. He says that when the Bi*ching stops then he will come around more. but I haven't said anything to him in idk how many weeks about him not comming out as much, I don't ask him where he goes all the time, I basicly let him just be with his friends, and he still hasn't shown that he would come back around
2007-01-31 03:47:14 · update #1
seems to me this guy is really using you. It is like this. He and you are together for what reason? It appears that he is more interested in the convienence of having you as a girlfriend but doesn't really want a much more. If I were you I would test the waters. I mean try something new. Tell him that you want to have others involved in your life. Someone that can care about you. Go out with this person and leave him at home and then when you come back tell him if the date was exciting and if you enjoyed it. That will get him to thinking that he does have something good and that without paying you the attention you need that you can get it elswhere. That will make hime either wake up and realize that you don't want him to keep playing a game on you or that will set you free.
2007-01-31 03:42:29 · answer #1 · answered by Ronald D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally understand, that happens sometimes in a relationship. I think you should just sit down with him and talk about it, because I don't think you will like it to continue this way! Let him know it's bothering you. Trust me you don't want it to continue that way because this exact same thing happened to me and I stayed quite and didn't say anything and it just made it worse because I felt unhappy and needed attention! You get tired of it. So I say speak up and let him know that you still need to be showed that your being loved! Good Luck ;)
2007-01-31 03:40:58 · answer #2 · answered by ♥AMO♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him whats going on. Ask him why he's not spending taht much time with you anymore. When me and my girlfriend spent time like that together I felt suffocated and took a few weeks for myself and did what I wanted to and hung out with friends. He'll get better just give him a little time but ask him whats going on and make sure theres nothing else going on thats been on his mind. Good luck with everything.
2007-01-31 03:39:15 · answer #3 · answered by taco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's 27. He needs to grow up. Get out of mommy's house and stop hanging out with friends and playing X-box. Since he hasn't done that yet dump him and find some one that is more responsible.
2007-01-31 03:38:38 · answer #4 · answered by DL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like hes seeing somebody else ... that answer he gives just doesnt sit right. if hed do more with you, you wouldn't ***** right? exactly ... investigate honey ... he's gotta be somewhere ... and guys use their friends as excuses to where they were at all the time ... dont believe them ... they lie even more than your bf does ... good luck ... you deserve better!
2007-01-31 05:01:19 · answer #5 · answered by msdrdn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's immature. Dump him and find someone that keeps the flames of desire high for you!
2007-01-31 03:37:37 · answer #6 · answered by jim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about it. do something. dont juss let it get to you. you need to get it out in the open
2007-01-31 03:37:22 · answer #7 · answered by Miss Justinee X3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋