Are any of you stuck in a relationship you dont really want to be in??
And why do you feel you cant get out of it?? x
2007-01-31 03:31:23 · 16 answers · asked by jo 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Very well said Londonlady!! x
2007-01-31 03:46:49 · update #1
YOU CAN get out!
YOU SHOULD get ou!!
My friend is like you.
She's been with her bf for 7 years, splitting up 2 times in between. She feels she can't see any passion for him, and they are together cuz that's easier than finding another one...
I think that's really sad! That is just wasting time.
As soon as you feel you're unhappy with the current relationship, and you don't feel love with him, it's really going to be hard to be happy again. Have you done as much as you can to make the relationship work? Interesting?
Or are you just tired of him, and don't want him?
Than ACT!! Get out of the relationship!
Talk to him this weekend!
Girl's 1 year is different to guy's 1 year. It's twice as much!
Don't waste any minute!
2007-01-31 03:52:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to be stuck in a relationship if you don't want to be in it but some people stay in it because they in love and think they can't find nobody else, they think they can't make it without the other person because of money or scare to leave. you can get out of it just be strong and hold your head up and do it and pray about it.
2007-01-31 03:41:29 · answer #2 · answered by msredbonel1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope wouldnt put myself in that position. I have been in this type of relationship before, and couldnt get out. Was a real nightmare so I sympathise with anyone else out there in that position. In the end, the constant jealousy and possesivness became so extreem it drove me mad, I worked loads of extra hours, saved up some money, found a room to rent. Pretened I was ill, so when she went out at work I packed up my stuff and did a moon light flit.... Man was that girl crazy when she came home!!!!! Took me about 6 months to finally be free....!
2007-01-31 03:52:49 · answer #3 · answered by djp6314 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO one cant get out of a relationship. Its fear, insecurity or boredom which makes people feel they cant leave.But we live in the year 2007 now, and in Britian everyone has a right to be with who ever they want. I know there are people out there that think i am wrong, but fear, insecurity and boredom are the 3 main reasons as to why people stay in a unhealthy relationship.
THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS CANT. XXXX
2007-01-31 03:39:58 · answer #4 · answered by london lady 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Stuck! Just started a great new job, but don't have a means of moving out. So still staying under the same roof, in the same bed. No sex, no affection. Sucks!
2007-01-31 03:35:43 · answer #5 · answered by kane_derick 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
yes im stuck we been together for 5 years and ive really grown to hate him. i asked him to leave and even threw his crap outside he refuses to leave and i dont want to call the police and say he hit me or something i dont want to be like that but im going to break soon. cant stand to look at him let alone sleep together. we do have a child together but thats just an excuse.im thinking of just leaving packing up and running b/c the hate grows more each day. cant stand his lazy a s s . now are you sorry you asked?
2007-01-31 03:41:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No but i was for 4 years and it took a long time to get the courage to get out of it and it was the best thing i EVER did, i immiediatley felt as if a weight was lifted from my shoulders. and in fact we are now really good friends.
you should never stay in a relationship if you dont want to be in it.
2007-01-31 03:36:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Nope not anymore. I was stuck in a realtionship for 5 years and finally we both decided enough was enough about 2 years ago. Been happily single ever since?!
2007-01-31 03:43:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
provide her time guy, and be her shoulder to relax on. lacking her ex is to be envisioned, yet you ought to be her buddy besides as her boyfriend and he or she would be able to rather get excitement from that. by skill of the sounds of issues, you 2 are super yet you only ought to provide her time, a year is an prolonged time. only be there for her, no be counted what her difficulty could be. do no longer hassle approximately her ex the two, they broke up for reason. this isn't any longer him she misses, this is the steadiness of an prolonged term relationship. She's in mourning, enable her be. Time is the terrific drugs and in case you prepare your self to be a worrying boyfriend besides as a worrying buddy, she would be able to get excitement from that and you 2 would be very pleased. only don't get aggravated at her if she mentions him, i've got been by using an prolonged term smash up and this isn't any longer hassle-free. this is troublesome to no longer think of of somebody who performed this type of great area on your existence for see you later. sturdy success, and don't hassle.
2016-09-28 05:49:15 · answer #9 · answered by philibert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stucked emotionaly, and I didnt want it to be this way, I wish it was easier to move on but the level the intimacy and the way I felt protected make it dificult.
2007-01-31 03:38:59 · answer #10 · answered by guriazinhainla 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋