When we first met she was a fun, energetic, hot woman. Now she is a fat disgusting pig. I swear I can hear her getting fatter. Sometimes I just feel like handcuffing her to a treadmill. How do I break up with her, Its hard because we own a house. But I can barely afford mortgage with with her food salary a week. Should I just take her out to a open feild and let her graze with the rest of the cattle?...Or watch her fat bum explode before my very attractive eyes.? I am sick of watching her eat but I am afraid she is going to try and eat me....help me out
2007-01-31 02:57:46 · 16 answers · asked by Help me out 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are rude! She obviously accepted you in the beginning-maybe you weren't so rude or ignorant then, but now it turns out that you are becoming a dumb@ss. I think that due to your inablilty to have any compassion for her, she should dump your sorry @ss!!!!
2007-01-31 03:06:29 · answer #1 · answered by LuckyDawg 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you being serious??
I think you should go back and do the things you first did with her (active things) and this will hopefully bring back great memories for the both of you.
As for food....you buy the groceries and cook so you can limit the portions as well as the fat intake. Maybe that will help.
You shouldn't just break up with a person because of their looks...as a partner....you should help them. Maybe she is eatting because the way you act towards her and is upset.
The way you are explaning is rude and if you are actually displaying your disgusted acts visually (you dont even have to say anything) to her and act differently like not showing any affection , that may contribute.
Be open and in a nice way ask her if she wants to go on a hike or something or walk or even a bike tour.
2007-01-31 12:46:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she started out fun, and hot in the begining of the relationship..that is who she really is. People over eat for many reasons. If she doesn't feel good about her job, her family, or her relationship, she may have taken food as her emotional support. If you love her, ask her to open up to you about what is going on in her life, and what she is upset about. If you get the answer to that, you may understand why she is using food to feel better. Then you can figure out a better way to handle it...If she knows you are sincere in trying to help her become herself again, not just to be 'thin', you may have a chance at helping her regain her self estem. Putting her down will never work. This is about her, not you...really. Good luck!
2007-01-31 11:17:06 · answer #3 · answered by Angel333... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds a bit sad as there is a lot of resentment and rage in this.
I understand the point because being fat is unhealthy in many ways (physical and mental).
There may be real hard issues in her mind for her to turn fat and "eat like a pig".
Before breaking up you can try to understand if she wants to address her weight issue. See if you can be of support.
If your decision is taken to break up, forget about mentioning the weight issue and just go as would anybody do (I am not saying this is easy), but just tell her you have decided that you want to end your relationship. Good luck.
2007-01-31 11:17:52 · answer #4 · answered by Claire 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok considering ur story is ever 10% true here is how i ahve dealt with situation when women get too 'comfortable'
go out and buy a really nice top for her but buy it 2 sizes smaller, make it out to be a big surprize... and then giver her and ask her to wear it immediately.. whne she does no fit pick on areas that look really bad such as love handles.. and say this was your size!! when she pleads innocence just say please jsut take the top back and replace it with something bigger and go in corner and sulk.. act depressed as you were really lookimg forward to seeing you 'better' half in this sexy new garment... usually this is a wakeup call and my gf then hit the gym like no ones buis.. and soo i had a sexier girl,....
2007-01-31 11:07:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She does not deserve to have these rude comments made about her, and you don't deserve to even have a relationship with any girl if this is how you talk about them behind their back.
2007-01-31 11:50:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are so disgusted with your fat girlfriend, you should break up with her, rather then stick with her and keep insulting her!
2007-01-31 11:22:42 · answer #7 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps she wouldn't eat as much if she left you!! Sounds like you have completely squashed her personality!
2007-01-31 11:08:51 · answer #8 · answered by KANGA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't love her then just dump her, if you do love her say you want to start going to the gym and ask her to come with you and work out together
2007-01-31 11:06:35 · answer #9 · answered by legend_1981_2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all if you really loved her you wouldnt care and second why dont yall take weekly trips to the gym together
2007-01-31 11:03:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋