My bf is a mechanic and you know what they say how mechanics make good money right. But it just seem that he can't save for S***. I am not working right now and he would give his grandma and me money every time he get pay but when he give me money a few days later he turns right back around and ask me to buy him something. That makes me very upset because I am not working I could see if I was working you know, just spend a little. I am supposed to be paying off bills and he asking me for money because he done finished his money or gave his grandma the rest of his money. Then he gets upset when I have an attitude. This is a very big turn off to me and I feel i shouldn't be with him anymore, but I have no one else.
He constantly ask me to get him something like I am working when I am not. I have no job, no money in my bank account, going in debt, and he's asking me for money, and etc. Then he tells me to believe in him and we will get through this,
2007-01-31 02:57:11 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am not feeling the love I have for him anymore because of this which is sad. When ever he ask me for money I just get full with anger then loss of love. What should I do about this? Is this right?
2007-01-31 02:57:47 · update #1
Oh yeah Iforgot to add that when he wasn't working it was me who took care of him and charged up money on my credit card because of him and he know to help me pay the bill back. So I am not lazy
2007-01-31 02:58:45 · update #2
I am looking for a job but its real hard to find employment without much experience and employers not wanting to give you a chance.
2007-01-31 03:28:00 · update #3
hey nobodys sayin ur lazy, i dont know the reason why u dont have a job but im sure u got ur reasons. here is my suggestion, find urself a decent job, move outta there and find urself a guy that will appreciate u and take care of u like a lady and not be takin ur bills money. u know what they also say bout mechanics...they like to give cute girls free oil changes...if u know what i mean. so im pretty sure ur man is also cheating on u and thats why hes got no more money, u better ck ur man.
2007-01-31 03:08:02 · answer #1 · answered by oc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to fix your problem, first find a job and get on your own feet, then dump him.
2007-01-31 03:09:54 · answer #2 · answered by jean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋