2007-01-31 02:55:04 · 23 answers · asked by adamcookie28 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Her best friend is in love with me!
2007-01-31 03:06:08 · update #1
Let me re-phrase that, cause alot of you guys went all crazy on me. I broke up with my girlfriend about 2 months ago, and one of her closer friends is in love with me, and I think I have built feelings for her too, is it ok to date her? She was actually my best friend before I started dating my ex, don't know if that makes a difference or not tho. Please help, and don't give me $*it about it.
2007-01-31 03:15:30 · update #2
Keep in mind that girls (the good friends anyway) have a thing where they don't really hook up with their friend's ex....and if they do, they make sure enough time has passed and their friend is okay with it. That said, if you and the friend both want to get together, she'll most likely make sure it's okay with your ex, but if you and the ex have remained friends, it would be cool for you to make sure it's okay with her as well. Good luck!
2007-01-31 02:59:37 · answer #1 · answered by flygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did u ever tell your x-girlfriend that u wouldn't date any of her friends? If u didn't then yeah u should ask her best friend out. Don't wait 2 long bcuz u never know your x-girlfriends best friend might find somebody else.
2007-01-31 11:00:04 · answer #2 · answered by Whittney H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will be in for drama like you have never seen before. But it might work out. There is a good chance that she will end up choosing her friend over you even though she shows interest now.
2007-01-31 10:58:44 · answer #3 · answered by marktron_3000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmmm buddy are you stupid?
what are you a moron?
if you want to cause a war and be apart of it then be my guest.
that would be the most degrading thing a guy could ever do, its low and very very disrepectful.
please dont underestamate the logics of stupitity, coz your just gonna be buried six feet under in s**t.
hehehahahahaha im sorry guys like you make me laugh so much, coz you dont think, not at all.
play it smart and stay single, it aint gonna kill you or cause limp d**k, you have your hands,.............right.
2007-01-31 11:03:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's NEVER ok!!! That's in the "hidden rule book"....
I'm sure you can find someone else other than her best friend. If her best friend actually dates you, then she's a terrible friend.
2007-01-31 10:58:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you may be upset about your break up..If that is in fact your situation you know already that is a huge no-no..just think how you would feel if she started dating your best friend..even if you are not torn up about the break up..you would not wanna come between best friends..right...and why the hurry to hook up again?
2007-01-31 11:07:17 · answer #6 · answered by renja27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd wait a month or so, or however long it takes to let all the drama die down---- maybe she'll hook up pretty quick with another new guy so then YOU can date whomever asap.
2007-01-31 10:58:17 · answer #7 · answered by Munya Says: DUH! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm...never ok to date an ex's best friend!
2007-01-31 11:01:09 · answer #8 · answered by Denise M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't even think it's right to date her best friend.
2007-01-31 10:58:14 · answer #9 · answered by baby_girlcara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating your girlfriend's best friend is not an honorable thing to do. There are too many other girls to date. Please show some respect.
2007-01-31 11:01:38 · answer #10 · answered by yesmeeks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋