i've been having some problems with my bf. one day i saw an email on his hotmail address and it was a girl saying: ohh i can't believe u called i love you u sooo much i will leave any guy just to be with u, u don't need to be with ur girlfriend, have a great weekend and call me again. well thats just the short story. so i asked him if that was true, he said no. that he didn't call anyone at all. ok i just ignored, so one day i see a napkin with a number, i called that number and it was a girl that i meat in a runaway competition, she was one of "his friends" if u know what i mean. he said he didn't know where that napkin came from. ok whatever ignored that. ok so we were broken up, and we gave it a shoot again. but yesterday, i saw an email from the same girl before saying: ur orkut is --- and ur password is---, our msn together is --- and the password is---. man he had a msn just to talk to her, an orkut wich i didnt know about it, just with her. and he said he didnt know about it!!!!
2007-01-31 02:52:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
so i broke up with him, cause i told him i'm not stupid. and besides his icon was the same icon he has in his other email address wich i'm aware of. and its a recent photo. and when i went to orkut.com he's email was save there already!! and he said he didn't know about it. soo what's ur advice people???
2007-01-31 02:54:35 · update #1
yes i did break up but i'm ssooooo madddd. i can't believe i was so blind. and i did everything for him, everything. i'm so stupiddd.
2007-01-31 03:07:28 · update #2
He was busted. I would rather a guy break my heart an just be truthful, than to lie and insult my intelligence.
guys like that deserve nothing, not you not her , no one.
for all you know he was telling her a line also, like ' i am not dating 'so and so' anymore.
You did the right thing, now stick to your guns, you don't need that!!!!
Wow, I re read you question, what a slap in the face!!!
DO NOT give him the other side to slap. He will probably deney the whole thing, or say it's over w/ her, but don't believe it!!
additional details: No you are not stupid. he made you to believe you were his only girl. Love is blind, you want to believe the best of who you are with. when they betray your trust, it stings, bad. Just make sure you don't hold that against someone else,( like a new bf)
HE IS THE STUPID ONE.
2007-01-31 02:58:36 · answer #1 · answered by lil' angel 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
he's making a fool out of you and lying to you because everything you're confronting him about even though he admits to doing nothing you jsut brush it off like whatever & beleive everything he tells you. He's just playing with you. I think u should just break up with him and let it go no turning back. WHy would he create a new email adress & a new msn ID so he can chat with her and not you?? he's definately hiding something. In my younger days i did stuff like this behind my bf's thinking they would never know but in reality i was lying to myself. I did all that you bf is doing because my bf beleived everything i told him and i just wanted to mess around with someone else but have someone emotionally there in case my new "encounters" didn;t work out or something. I think he's just using you and it's time to move on.
2007-01-31 11:01:04 · answer #2 · answered by mari d 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please don't put yourself out like an open target again for fellas like that to do whatever they want behind your back,lie about it and then expect poor,gullible you to believe them.
You seem like a smart girl and I don't think that's the kind of person you want to end up with. That's the thing, most of the time we rush into relationships that we know in our subconscious is not good for us but we ignore all the warning signs until it's too late and we HAVE to face up to the truth.
I'd encourage you to wait on God to choose the right person for you. He DEFINITELY has a better insight into the matter than you would.
2007-01-31 11:08:09 · answer #3 · answered by child of God 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Looks like you've got all the evidence to convict this guy, so definitely dump him. It's sad and frustrating, I know, but dating is all about learning what you want and don't want in a partner. Now you know that you don't want a big fat liar...
If you're with a guy who truly cares about you, he won't be looking for love anywhere else, even if it's with a cyber-chick or otherwise. Trust me, I have the greatest man a girl could ever ask for!
2007-01-31 11:02:25 · answer #4 · answered by f8_smyled 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds as if he is a big player!!!! u need to back out now or you know what get on the msn thing since you have the passwords etc and say hello to this other girl and see whats up then you both can catch him up. i think though you would be best going on
2007-01-31 11:06:59 · answer #5 · answered by wildcat_mom 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
for one honey if your going to keep ignoreing it all then he thinks hey she is letting me get away with it why let him treat you that way when you no you could do better what if he ****** her then ****** you you see it would be your doings to for letting it happen over and over again wise up sweetie he not all that you think he is ther are more fish in the sea
2007-01-31 11:00:50 · answer #6 · answered by mommaof42007 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is definately seeing the other girl..
2007-01-31 10:58:12 · answer #7 · answered by -K3llY- 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He wants his cake and he wants to eat it too. Are you going to let him is the question?
2007-01-31 10:57:45 · answer #8 · answered by MamaLady 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get in his face about it, you dont deserve to be toyed around with. find someone who wants you and only you.
2007-01-31 10:58:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anthony C 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get rid and ont look back, he is just going to cause you more hurt and pain.
2007-01-31 11:02:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋