I was mad about him now i cant stand him i dont want him, is this normal
2007-01-31 02:40:29 · 15 answers · asked by kelly h 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
i used to be md about my partner now i cant stand him of course i want my baby. i already have another son. is it hormonal or will i grow out of this feeling
2007-01-31 02:50:28 · update #1
yes... totally normal, I was crazy bout my man, we tried for our second baby for 7 months finally got pregnant and at around the same stage as you (around 20 weeks) I told him I didn't love him anymore and I wanted a break!!!!, a few days later we were back together and are now happily looking forward to havin our lil boy in 6 weeks!!
2007-01-31 02:55:14 · answer #1 · answered by irish_jipper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When your pregnant your hormones are all out of whack. Sometimes you can be all happy and next moment your in tears. I never was mad or angry at being pregnant but we had a planned pregnancy. So if you weren't planning this it probably is normal to have feelings of being trapped. The main thing is that you need to remember how blessed you are to be able to have a baby, because so many people can't. If you decide you don't want him, give him to someone who does. There are adoption agencies that can help you find a loving couple who desperately want a child. If you decide to keep the baby always try to remember it wasn't his fault if your life doesn't turn out the way you wanted it to and love him unconditionally.
2007-01-31 10:53:43 · answer #2 · answered by precious1too 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hormones play a serious factor on an expectant mother and cause her emotional stress and large differnce in feelings durring her pregnancy. Try to explain this to your partner. Concentrate on the baby, your health and involving the father, this may bring you together again durring the pregnancy. Once the baby is born, your emotions will eventually settle, and you may find this feeling gone and pleased that you held in on the relationship. Please think long and hard before taking any serious actions, and remember, the father will alwys play a role in this baby's life, so be prepared for it to maybe get rough, should you act upon your current feelings.
2007-01-31 11:17:51 · answer #3 · answered by Need_to_know 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When my wife was pregnant I became the Devil Incarnate!
If that wasn't bad enough, at the birth she broke my finger!
And she said she'd never let me near her again with that THING again!
And she threw up all over me (The Gas and Air mix was too strong) but she also got the nurses and the monitoring equipment as well so I guess it doesn't count!
All the Hormones and changes going on in your body will change you significantly and emotionally.
It is, however, temporary.
Soon he will be the light of your life again and your baby will complete you!
congratulations it's a girl!
:~}
2007-01-31 10:53:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seek your own counsel in this matter. When that baby is born it's a life long commitment. If you aren't ready for that, then consider adoption, that will be best for the baby and the lucky family that recieves your blessing.
If you don't want to go that far, there is still time for an abortion.
Isn't there? Sorry I forget the dates. Do what is best for you, then what is best for the baby.
2007-01-31 10:45:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First CONGRATULATIONS xxxx
lol Yes it is. Its all your hormones it gets better soon and you start to settle down.
I am 28 weeks pregnant and feel great now but at first i was in right old mess i wanted to stab my fiance lol He got on my nerves sooooo much but now i couldnt be happier and i am very excited about my little baby comming.
Hope this helps
xx
2007-01-31 10:45:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well I heard of this thing called pregnancy and post pregnancy depression, i think u are depressed, it's normal so try to avoid these thoughts that u can't stand him. if u need more help consult a doctor, an obs. or gyn. could help
2007-01-31 10:46:10 · answer #7 · answered by zozza 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hormones during pregnancy do wonderfully weird things to women, it may well be hormonal or maybe it really is that you dont want to be with him!.. try taking some time out to yourself and see how you feel after
2007-01-31 10:43:33 · answer #8 · answered by merrpet 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its probably due to changes in your hormones it can make us go off or get attatched to certain things hence why some women have cravings for food or are really sensative to certain smells during pregnancy.
2007-01-31 10:43:57 · answer #9 · answered by Jo. 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I do hope you are talking about your partner here and not your baby !!!
2007-01-31 10:46:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋