help me..i definatly need help..im very much scared?

Question

well im in my college,..having lot of resposibilities n peer pressure to deal wid..i feel so much tired n sad at d end of d day dat i feel lik crying..i cant leave college ..but i dont knw what kinda attitude is required to deal wid d harsh world..i feel so scared dat im not good enough!!

Answer 1

you know it really suck that you're here asking for help and all people can do is put you down about your spelling... college is one of the most challenging things in life... it's okay to feel overwhelmed... it is part if life... atleast you made it to college... you have to stick it out... don't let peer pressure cloud your mind... you don't nneed those people. they aren't going to graduate for you or help you with your studies when you need it... they are there to ruin thier life and bring people down in the process... don't be one of those people... as for feeling sad and depressed... maybe if you study more and just do what you have to do it won't affect you soo much... find some new friends... i would say some people who are serious about thier schooling... if not stick to your self... that is all you need in life because like i said no one will help you get there but you... if you really can't handle the stress i suggest finding yourself a counselor or someone whio you can talk to about your daily stresses... the best attitude to have is a positive one... please keep your head held high and don't let anyone tell you you aren't good enough... you made it that far don't quit now...

Answer 2

Go talk to your consulor at school. That person might be able to refer you to a doctor. You sound like your stress has hit that point. Try and break things down a bit you rambled off a lot of broad questions that you dont need to deal with just yet. If you cant leave college the first goal is to get the required sleep and talk to someone to help you with what you are feeling now. Im still in college and I worry a lot and lose sleep on it. I tell myself that I cant do it all so I ask for the help when I need it and try to take care of my health first and formost. So its ok to skip a few days of classes to get yourself in order and set up a few appts. You need to crack that anxiety. Try to get some sleep take a hot shower light those candles and chill out with some nice music. Btw you are good enough for this "harsh world". Once you have a few things figured out you will be on your way. Good luck:)

Answer 3

I think you need to calm down.

The fact is you are good enough. You got into college didn't you! If I was you, right now I would do something that I enjoy and that calms me down - like having a bath or listening to some music.
Or even have a rest.
You don't have to deal with everything right away, but once you have had a rest for some reason, your problems seem to be a little less significant.

Hope that helps ;) x

Answer 4

Your feelings are completely normal. College is a huge adjustment and can be very scary. The important thing is you are there and in the long run bettering your life. It is a very scary world out there but by being in school you are preparing yourself for it. Think about all the kids who graduate (or don't graduate) high school and go right into the workforce and all they do is struggle. You are developing very important values and knowledge to prepare yourself for the real world so that you will succeed in more ways than one. You will get through this, don't give up! College flies by faster than you think! For now, try joining some clubs or something. It'll get you out of your dorm, you will make new friends and have a nice looking resume to hand out to all of your potential employers. You can do it!!! Congratulations in your decision to better your life!

Answer 5

I only completed high school. How did you get to college if you can't spell? I have the feeling you have missed alot of school and sleep for a long time. Its a fast moving world out there. But you can slow it down if you want. Anything is possible if you put your mind to it. And don't worry about what others are thinking. You have to run your own life and do what makes you happy. Don't let others run it for you.
Good luck & take care.

Answer 6

It would be a good idea to go to your student health center and talk to a counselor. They can help you come up with a plan on how to cope with the things that are bringing you so much stress. That is why the counselors are there, so don't be afraid to utilize them. College can be an overwhelming experience and you certainly are not alone. Many college students are dealing with the same issues you are describing. Talk to a counselor. You'll feel better. Good luck.

Answer 7

Just keep hanging in ther is my advice. I went through this feeling and it is actually a very typical feeling for college age kids.
All I can think of to tell you is things get much better as you get older. I thought my life was very hard and too stressful when I was in my early 20's and then it was, but there is good news...
I am 32 now and I in reality I have found that things just keep getting better and easier for you as you get older, and more mature with some life experiences under your belt. The more hardships you deal with the stronger you will become. And life just gets easier somehow and you become your own person.
College was too much pressure for me and I ended up dropping out of my university classes and ended up graduating from a community college. The degree is just as good as from a university.
Just try to be strong and learn from your experiences. If things are hard, sometimes they are worth putting up with just to learn from. If you really feel out of place, don't totally give up yet, just start figuring out other options that will be beneficial to your future as well. Finding something else that is more suited for you might change your attitude.
As far as your friends go, try to have a backbone with them too. I know that if you let them rule your descision making too much you will really be looking back at these times with a lot of regrets. If you are honest with them about your feelings they should respect you, and if they don't respect you just move on and be a strong individual and concentrate on your studies and eventually you will make better friends. It will be worth it to keep your self respect and make friends who respect you too.
Hang in there and good luck.

Answer 8

Okay just breath. You can handle this. College is just the first step but you need to try not to let little things get to you. Yes college is important but it's not all there is to life. You must always make time for your self in this world of crazy. If you do this it will help to lower your stress. The most important thing is to stop over thinking about everything. Relax life isn't all that bad.

Answer 9

I am sorry for your struggles....my son is in college and struggles with overwhelming feelings too...all I can tell you, this time is not for ever...All you can do is your best...and you should be happy with that....and not be worrying about what your peers are doing....You know...no matter where you go in life, there are always going to be someone that can do it bigger or better....and you know what?...That's OK...It doesn't make what you have to offer the world irrelevant. Every day it is about getting up and putting one foot in front of the other....doing your best for that day....and that's it. None of us can completely control the direction of our lives...it is a journey. You can either stress yourself out about it....or relax and just see where it goes....You need to be your own best friend....and give yourself a break. Good luck.

Answer 10

Man be happy you are in school,instead of dodging bombs and bullets daily.What is to be scared of.Your B>S.ing right!I don't understand really what your point is,so cry if you want.Sometimes we all need a good cry,it would be better than bottling everything up inside then having a break down later on.Talk to a family member or see a therapist