okay so this kid i was talking to wrote me a note that said "i have a girlfriend, i hope you dont care, i dont know what to do or say."
what does that suppose to mean because im taking it as he wants to be weith his girl and have me on the side...i really dont understand.
2007-01-31 02:33:13 · 10 answers · asked by Nene 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah thats what he wants!!!! Do what you want to do, but make sure she doesn't know about it!!! Good luck -- going through the same thing!!!
2007-01-31 02:39:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I would end any kind of emotional ties you may have with him right now. Although it's impossible to just cut off your feelings, you can cut off your ties. Do it before you get in too deep. Don't become the girl on the side, even if you think he will leave her for you. It's easy to think that, but what if that does happen? How do you know you won't be the main girlfriend down the road while he has other girls "on the side?" No one is worth putting yourself through that emotional pain and stress. At least he is showing his true colors up front, while you still have control of the situation. Good Luck!
2007-01-31 02:41:55 · answer #2 · answered by Calli 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats what he is saying he wants his cake and eat it to. You should find out who his girlfriend is and showher the note and bust him out. If he is willing to do it to her or you i wonder how many other women he has hurt in the past besides a jerk like that sounds like to me that he is out for his self and if so i would lay money on the fact that he doesnt use protection wich is very sick because that is how s.t.d's get passed around. My advice to you is to cut all ties with this jerk before you get your self in a mess that you dont want to be in.
2007-01-31 02:44:29 · answer #3 · answered by apache672004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants to be upfront & let u know that he alrdy has a girlfriend, but he is also interested in you & hopes that that won't stop u from taking it further w/ him.it's all up 2 u though.it seemss like he likes you but may not know what to do w/ his current situation...so far he hasnt lied...right? jus remain friends until he ends it w/ his girl...if that is his plan. btw, if u were the girlfriend, he'd probably do the same thing to you.
2007-01-31 02:42:37 · answer #4 · answered by ♰ smooth sailing ♰ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be on the side. Leave him.
2007-01-31 02:41:04 · answer #5 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that mean he has you to kick it with and have all the fun.. and then you go home alone and he goes home to his chica.. so thats all you if you want to play the role of the mistress and sancha..
2007-01-31 02:45:30 · answer #6 · answered by tony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
def. drop the a hole . How dare he say something like that? I would suggest you leave him asap.
2007-01-31 02:42:17 · answer #7 · answered by . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants to date u on the side. tell him get bented
2007-01-31 02:39:52 · answer #8 · answered by honey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's what it sounds like to me. Don't put up with that. He's a loser.
2007-01-31 02:38:48 · answer #9 · answered by DL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're absolutely right!
2007-01-31 02:41:23 · answer #10 · answered by lover4ne1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋