My definition of good is Single, no arrest record, no children, ambitious, intelligent.
2007-01-31 02:24:32 · 26 answers · asked by TD 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Church! It's where I found Mine!!
2007-01-31 02:30:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
The United States Marine Corps.
2007-01-31 02:50:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
before you fall asleep every night. Stop going out of your way to put yourself in a cute guys view so he will approach you. Then….. church, school, gym, book store. There are plenty of good places to meet a man, but what I don’t want you to do is miss out on a good man because he does not meet your mold. I don’t know if you’re a spiritual person, but I believe God will work it out for you. He may not come when you want him but he is always on time. AND what you think you want may not be what’s best for you. Lord knows I would love to find a fine man with no kids a job that pays over 100k per year and a d*ck the size of my forearm but that could be the guy that puts his forearm in everything with two legs and when you have a kid you realize he’s not a good father and his 100k job he’s going on “business” trips with his secretary with the big boobs. My point. STOP LOOKING AND LET GOD WORK IT OUT.
2007-01-31 02:49:31 · answer #3 · answered by angieward_2000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First thing, you have to be a little more agressive. If you're waiting for men to approach you in the traditional way, the guys that you're going to meet are the agressive guys - and yes, most of those guys have been locked up before and have 9 kids by 12 different women and don't pay child support for any of them and they have a wife and a girlfriend and a mistress and they sleep with random women they meet in bars.
The ambitious intelligent guys who are single, don't have kids and have never been arrested are probably very shy - you're going to have to seek them out and you're going to have to make the first move.
Now, you have to ask yourself, are you actually attracted to men like that? Or do you secretly prefer the agressive macho guys with the prison records and the multiple women and multiple kids
In my experience, that's the problem with a lot of sistas who complain about not being able to "find a good man".
2007-01-31 02:34:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You want a good man and you are linning out all those C.V. Your definition of a good man is funny cause a man can have all the characteristics / specs. you listed and still be a bad man. Well, you can visit the Church, Library, Stadium, Gynasium, Shopping malls to meet this good man. Good men are everywhere, just pray to meet a God fearing man, that is meant for you.
2007-01-31 02:59:50 · answer #5 · answered by wilson_ugbo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems that 'no arrest record' should go without saying. Since it doesn't, I would go very far from where you usually meet men. Try a dating service for busy professionals, or try to meet men at the gym. Be forward. It's hard for men to know when it's ok to talk to women.
2007-01-31 03:03:06 · answer #6 · answered by Year of the Monkey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best place is where you meet you "Mr Right."It can be anywhere so start looking." Every man is a good man " as a saying goes "One man food is another man poison."
2007-01-31 02:39:20 · answer #7 · answered by batu5001 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try Austin Texas there is plenty of single guys with your qualifications including me lol!
2007-01-31 02:30:29 · answer #8 · answered by lover4ne1 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i got in a rut .
A friend gave me this cool book and it changed my life and me forever.
Loving smart by Dr. Phil.
basically the book is How to find a good mate and keep them andboudaries and loving your self.
If you want to get what you never had. you gotta do what you never done,
slow down and dont rush take thigns slow and easy
2007-01-31 02:31:06 · answer #9 · answered by tennessee 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
a good man can have kids silly. shows he can be a good father. and that shows he is a good man. everything else isnt that hard to find
2007-01-31 02:30:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ahh so if a man has a child he's not a good man? Best place to find one of those is a monastery
2007-01-31 02:28:43 · answer #11 · answered by texas_angel_wattitude 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋