So my wierdo, ex-boyfriend who dumped me last week, probably so he could have some space. Calls me last night & aske me if he can sleep on my couch because he was really tired & couldn't make it home. It was only 8:45 and he only live 25 minutes from me. So when I told him no he shows up anyway, begging & when I let him in he walked right in and fell asleep on the couch with all of his cloths on. Then he gets up this morning and vomitts all over my bathroom and then he decides that he can't move so I have to leave him there while I'm gone to work.
He knows that the way my apartment door works you have to have a key in order to lock it. He could've easily made it home last night. I know he wasn't that tired. What's wrong with guys, why can't they just ever what they really mean?
2007-01-31 02:03:38 · 12 answers · asked by geminig 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe I should've added that no he doesn't drink & he doesn't do drugs. Why is everyone always so negative? I figured he used it as an excuse to see if I'd give into to him. He got sick & vomitted this morning when he was about to leave.
2007-01-31 02:46:32 · update #1
Sounds to me like he was overwhelmed on drugs (probably cocaine) and have no place to go where he would feel safe.
2007-01-31 02:13:23 · answer #1 · answered by Israel-1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey sweetheart, he was blasted. He knew exactly wjhat he wanted, the closest place to crash. It's not you that this loser wants. He became accustomed to get hammered stupid and crashing at your place, like a habitual thing. He figures, because he is a pothetic lush, that eh should still be allowed that privelege. WRONG! You made a mistake letting him in, now you will have to get rid of him all over again. Believe when I say that if you don't nip it in the bud now, he's going to think you want him back because you keep letting him in. Go find yourself a real man and tell Mel Gibson to get his own couch, ok????
2007-01-31 02:19:18 · answer #2 · answered by Blind Sighted 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called "being taken advantage of" which your ex has done. He wants his freedom to do what he pleases but also wants you to be there for him. He can't have both. I hope you don't have a mess to clean up when you get home. I would politely ask him to leave and if he doesn't? Try calling a friend or family member to come and get him. You deserve better. Good Luck
2007-01-31 02:14:59 · answer #3 · answered by Lace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did the vomiting give you a clue that maybe he wasn't lying? Dunce!
2007-01-31 02:15:11 · answer #4 · answered by sowhat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't know what he wants. I think he just wants to get in your pants but not have a relationship. He wants to look around.
2007-01-31 02:09:48 · answer #5 · answered by lover4ne1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because when you add women to the equation of anything in a guy's life, we just start to f*ck stuff up lol
2007-01-31 02:10:42 · answer #6 · answered by colera667 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummmm... Why did he vomit in the morning? Did you cook him breakfast?
2007-01-31 02:20:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he used that excuse to see u. Guys are like that u just have to ignore them.
2007-01-31 02:12:39 · answer #8 · answered by biggest_duke_fan_ever@yahoo.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to sniff your socks while you are gone. It was all part of his plan.
2007-01-31 02:23:44 · answer #9 · answered by Submit to her Feet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HONEY YOURE DEALING WITH THE WRONG MEN...CHANGE YOUR LOCKS AND FIND A NICE PERSON WHO CARES FOR YOU........NOT THIS JERK WHO COULDNT GIVE A CRAP...HE DOESNT CARE ABOUT HIMSELF HOW CAN YOU EXPECT HIM TO CARE ABOUT OTHERS.....
2007-01-31 02:10:17 · answer #10 · answered by marc r p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋