how do you get over the feeling of being lonely, you see heres my life (Work, Home, Sleep, back to Work) i dont have any friends 4 real and when it comes to guys im very very pickie. How do i shake this feeling of needing someone all the time it gets depressing sometimes. Plus i dont have a car so when i meet guys with cars i dont wont them to think im using them or something just because of it so i stop talking to them, its tough im only 20 years old and i feel like im isolated from the everyone. I have one best friend but she dont have a car either so we barely hang out. I dont know what to do
2007-01-31 01:50:41 · 11 answers · asked by darkcutie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
make an effort to get yourself out of the house, learn to drive to give yourself some independance... and stop worrying so much, dont stop talking to a guy just because he has a car, as long as you arnt asking for lifts everywhere why would he think you just wanted him for his car??
you are still young and there is a whole world and a whole life out there to be explored and lived, make the most of it while you are young enough, try things you have always wanted to try, do new activities, make an effort to get out... only you can push yourself to do these things, only you can make yourself happy... make an effort with your friend, arrange to meet half way, get a taxi, catch the bus, walk whatever... it just takes a bit of effort on your part to build a good happy social life...
take that step.... and live your life to the full
2007-01-31 02:01:27 · answer #1 · answered by merrpet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm married with a new child, and recently went through a little depression. Its normal to feel lonely at times. Why dont' you have any friends? I recently moved to a new city and left all my life long friends and can tell you it is hard to meet new friends and even harder to develop strong bonds. Where do you live? does the city have a good public transit system? not having a car is not the end of the world. You are still young and your life will change ten times over during the next 10 years. Hang in there, when the time is right, you will meet that special someone.
2007-01-31 02:00:29 · answer #2 · answered by newname_01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone does get lonely, however you need to feel comfortable in your own skin, and being on your own. So here's what I'd suggest, try and break your rountine of Work, home, sleep, back to work. Find something that you're interested in. In doing this you'll probably meet like mided people and expend your friendship circle.
Guys - when it comes to the situation your in having a guy to fill the space is not the answer, when you fill that space for yourself, you'll find a guy, and he'll want you all the more because you're confident about who you are.
I know none of this sounds like a quick fix and it's not... but trust me it's worth the effort...
2007-01-31 01:58:39 · answer #3 · answered by nuttylouuk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I undersatand hoe you fee i'm 22 and i moved to a new city where i only have 2 friends and i really dont hang with them because my schedule (work,school,home,sleep(not enough),back to work)
My advice is forget about people thinking that your using them for their car GO OUT!! you only live once. Meet new people , talk to your co-workers maybe on a friday after work you can go have a bite to eat and then go home. The point it try to fit some extra time in your schedule for you! :)
2007-01-31 02:03:07 · answer #4 · answered by Kee-Kee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HEY!
I think you stole my life style. Just kidding of course.
That's the life style for someone like me and I'm 30 years older than you are. You're too darn young to have that kind of life. You need to add one more step between work and home. Get out there and meet others and start dating. It's great that you're picky but you need to get out there and be picky with real people cause you can't be picky when there's no one to be picky of.
2007-01-31 02:02:59 · answer #5 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are lacking in having your core needs fed.
i can not answer here as there is not enough room and i have more questions than answers at this point.
do you have yahoo messenger?
if so, message me at
heart_soul_mind2003
this applys to you too mandygirl!!
i will guide you to a happier life.
2007-01-31 01:57:04 · answer #6 · answered by Life Coach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should find someone who can talk to you on the phone. ...then branch out from there! It's corny, but it's a starting place.
2007-01-31 01:57:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone gets lonely sometime...concentrate on bettering yourself. If you love yourself others will too.
2007-01-31 01:55:21 · answer #8 · answered by budhagan 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know that feeling of being lonley too...im in love tho...but he dont love me he loves another girl...and i dont wanna be with anyone else but him!!:(it bites!
2007-01-31 01:55:53 · answer #9 · answered by then she killed my brain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come see me babe, we'll liven it up for you! hehe
2007-01-31 02:38:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋