my gf doesnt really care for the whole sexual touching and things like that how do i ease her into it and she is scared to kiss someone i need help
2007-01-31 01:45:58 · 3 answers · asked by hyps 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I always like it when my man touches my face. You can try that and try kissing her cheeck and neck to try to ease her into it.
Sounds like something is worrying her though. I would sit with her one day and have a heart to heart talk about what is bothering her. Ask her what you can do to make it more comfortable for her. Open communication is the best thing. It will also show her that you do care about her and dont want to hurt or push her in any way that she is uncomfortable with.
Good luck.
2007-01-31 01:58:42 · answer #1 · answered by moo shell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is she... scared to Kiss? She sounds like she has issues with intimacy that need to be dealt with. Maybe her family was not one that hugged each other and she is very unfamiliar with "touching". I would suggest taking it very slow with a kiss here and there until she is comfortable with that. Then you will have to ease into anything more than that as the rest entales alot more touching than a kiss. Has she seen anyone about this? Maybe she just has no idea what to do so it's uncomfortable for her to even begin.
2007-01-31 01:59:37 · answer #2 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
romance, and a little incouragement, tell her that you can wayt 4 her 2 be ready, and you dont want to push her, but your wanting a little trust and excitement in your life. Tell her that your not the kinda guy that goes off bragging to your mates about wat ever you 2 do in the bed room and make her feel sicure, good look x x
2007-01-31 02:00:53 · answer #3 · answered by love_me_im_sweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋