whenever i notice this guy, i always blush and im really very shy to face him. . when he comes to talk to me, i get too nevous and dont kno what to say! we both have a crush o eachother.. plz tell me what 2 do!!
2007-01-31 01:39:53 · 10 answers · asked by me me and only me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sweets you'll get over it honest. just breathe. put things into perspective. he's just another human being...no need to be nervous. he doesn't expect you to be perfect. just be yourself and success will come your way if so destined! best wishes frm a girl in the UK.
2007-01-31 09:15:33 · answer #1 · answered by hollym 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im a very shy person aswell, and i know exactly how you feel. You may find it easyer to ask him out in someway, like a note, or a letter rather then face to face. if he does have a crush on you, he will say yes, and once u meet, it will get easyer as it goes on to talk as you both build your confidence. I know its sooo hard, but TRY and not be shy, confidence is an attractive thing, but then agian, shyness can also be cute aswell :) ok well good luck, just know that everything will be ok once u get over the first few conversations :D
2007-01-31 09:52:25 · answer #2 · answered by ggfddg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contact a good friend of yours, who is not shy about talking to strangers, and who is going with someone, to go with you to a place where this guy will be (or, if you know his phone number, to call him).
What your friend will do is tell the guy that you would like to get to know him better, and suggest that the four of you should get together somewhere, like a place to eat.
If you do not have a friend who is going with someone, but you do have a good male friend, then you could ask him.
Basically, being among people you know when you meet someone you like will help you to overcome your shyness with him.
2007-01-31 09:57:43 · answer #3 · answered by DrRJP 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That last answer was right. I am incredibly shy, never talk to guys. Then I met this one guy that I liked so much I just sucked it up and made myself talk to him. He was really shy too, but I kept approaching him and eventually it was comfortable. We've been together 3 years now! If you really like him, and don't want to lose your chance of ever being with him, you just need to try and be bold.
2007-01-31 09:51:18 · answer #4 · answered by Gina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take it one step at a time. Start out with "HI". Then, increase the conversation each time you talk. ...but keep talking until you are comfortable. Don't say "HI" once and then avoid him after that. Speak everytime you see him and build up to a comfortable relationship!
2007-01-31 09:50:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi would be the first step. then just start to talk to him think why r u so shy?
if he likes you then you shouldent have to be around him and if he is still hanging around you all the time then he must like you for something you did.
but you will never know if you like him truly if you dont start to talk to him or not being so shy twords him!
2007-01-31 09:57:21 · answer #6 · answered by horsegirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just think of one thing that you shall loose him If you were like this
every time. This will make you confident while talking to him.
2007-01-31 22:25:51 · answer #7 · answered by hkg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just face your fears and make yourself talk to him. Pretty soon you'll be comfortable around him.
2007-01-31 09:47:32 · answer #8 · answered by *Nicole* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him, be freinds with him. if u feel the same after u become freinds with him, express what u feel for him.
2007-01-31 11:46:09 · answer #9 · answered by yourfreind_forlife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go under it.
2007-02-03 04:31:13 · answer #10 · answered by N. S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋