what do i do?

Question

There's this guy, and i really like him. i'm 17 and i've had crushes on guys before, but never anything like this. i can't stop thinking about him. at night i can't fall asleep, by day i can't concentrate on anything, and i don't even know him! i'm not just after his looks, he's not that hansome, and i barely know who he is and yet i'm totally crazy about him. i feel like i've known him forever. like they say love at first sight. He's exactly the kind of person i would want to live with for the rest of my life. how do i get his attention? what do i say?
and whaat should i do when i see him and start blushing like crazy and i get butterflys in my stomache and want to just look at him and say something, but i run away instead?
and how do i know if it's true love or if i'm just crazy?
please help! i need advice!

Answer 1

hi
im 17 too sou i know you can fall in love now:)
dont worry ok?? first you have toknow if he has girlfriends or not.... if you just have get him or if you have to break up them you know what i think??? and how are is he??? you know him from school??? or where did you met him???and do you like his behaviour or do you only like his good-look??

Answer 2

Chances are that it's merely an infatuation on your part...but I'm not one to believe in love at first sight. My high school senior class had 486 students. There were probably 10 couples that I knew of at that time who dated 'exclusively' in high school that I thought would end up getting married. Well, about 3 of them actually did and out of those 3 marriages, only one couple is still together.

Look...you're young and you have many years ahead of you. Have fun! Just walk up to the guy if you can catch him not hanging with his buds and introduce yourself. If he's interested in you, he'll chat a bit, try to arrange another meeting, or perhaps a phone number for more conversation. Whatever you do, don't introduce yourself in front of his friends. You don't want others to influence him negatively.

I'm an older guy, so introducing myself to women was the norm during my dating years. I hear things are a bit different now and that it isn't uncommon for women to ask men out. Regardless of who does the asking, it sucks because just by introducing yourself, you're telling the other person that, "Hey, I'm interested in you!" The fear of rejection is strong, but you need to overcome that. A simple introduction instead of a goofy pick up line always works best. Think of it as playing the lotto. If you don't play, you can't win. Good luck and have fun! These can and should be some of the best moments in your life.

Answer 3

Well, if you are already thinking this way and it is not a "lust" attraction, then you have to do the following. First, you'll have to start to hang out where you know he will be. You said he doesn't know you at all?? Well if that is the case then just start slowly and make casual conversation, I wouldn't go straight up to him and ask for his number or if he wants to take you out! LOL. But you have to build some kind of relationship with him (so he at least knows your name!) then take it from there. But you have to make sure that you are "flirty" and light. Don't go into the "friend zone" because then you will never be anything more then that. But I would say accidentally run into him a few times (wherever) and then just go up to him and say I noticed you, I'm sure you noticed me too, how about we get together. See what happens!!! Good Luck!!

Answer 4

First, I doubt this is true love. True love comes about through a long committed relationship. This is just a rather severe crush.

I was reading an article about the "Top 10 Pick-up Lines" that guys use on women. What was interesting is that they also included the most effective pick-up line that women use on men. Do you know what it was? It was, "Hi."

Seriously, guys like getting attention from girls, period. If he's into you, it will be apparent. If not, that will also be apparent. Just talk to him, smile and be friendly. Don't do anything to try and impress him. Don't write him notes. Don't buy him anything. Look for opportunities to start a conversation, and when one comes up, take it. Just talk about the first thing that pops into your head and don't worry about looking stupid. If he's into you, what you think "looks stupid" to him will be "cute."

Good luck.

Answer 5

Just talk to him; be friendly. Start with a "Hi!" and a smile. Compliments also work wonders (although they should be sincere!)! I've found that some of my best relationships have started from a friendship.

Do you have any of the same classes together? Teachers? You can easily start a conversation about school to break the ice; then expand to any extracurricular activities, outside interests, etc. Once you're talking more and more, things will probably progress from there. Good luck, hon! :)

Answer 6

Sweetheart that is the most amazing feeling in the world, isn't it? You are in love! Enjoy the feeling! Now the next step isn't so easy and only you can decide what the right thing is for you to do. I would definitely suggest that you let him know you are interested in him, how you do it is up to you. Try and get to be his friend first, does someone you know know him? Arrange a meeting that way or get involved in an activity that he is involved in. He may break you heart so be prepared for that but always remember its better to have loved and lost, than never to have love before.
Good luck

Answer 7

First of all don't mention the whole i want to spend the rest of my life with you stuff just yet he might be a little intimidated then you sound like a nice girl I'm sure he would be happy to go out with you just try to get chatting to him about little things I'm sure he's gathered that your interested and is prob just nervous about talking to you to but someone has to make the first move are you going to bark like a little doggie all day or are you going to bight?

Good luck

Answer 8

Sounds like a major crush! You should say hi to him or something. Blushing is good! He sees that you like him, he will begin to come to you! It just might take time. Get his attention somehow and watch his signs. You will know. As a last resort, you could get a friend to talk to him! ...but I would try other things first.

Answer 9

Well if you don't even know him then it's not LOVE. If your that hot for him, just ask him out. If he says yes then it's meant to be, if he says no then move on. It's just a crush unless you really know what the other person is really like.

Answer 10

YOU ARE 17!!! Don't ever rush into something. Always give life time to unfold and allow you to live. I've met so many people I thought were my true loves, and looking back, I wonder what I was thinking.

Answer 11

I don't believe in love at first sight. I believe in lust at first sight. There is obviously something attracting you to him, but who knows, you may walk up to him and he may be an ******. You need a reason to approach him. Think of something or ask your friends to help you think of a reason to approach him. Do you both have myspace pages? Maybe request to be his friend on there and then get to talking. maybe he has something on his page you could gently inquire about it. It'd be a good conversation starter! Good luck!