i just thiink me and her are not good together girls any advice or boys on how to give them the bad news
2007-01-31 01:13:16 · 16 answers · asked by chris udell 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In my opinion, if it took you six years to realize she isn't the one, then something is wrong. Both your time and hers have been wasted. Just come right out and tell her that you aren't happy and you want to move on then don't call her or anything anymore. Let her go on with her life and find someone who wants to make her happy and treat like the princess she probably is. Good luck.
2007-01-31 01:26:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear friend, start with being curtious. You don't 'dump' someone with whom you have shared good times and I am sure some bad fights too.
Do it nicely, like a gentle man. If you are living together, do it at your place. Don't make a public issue or scene. It will be too humiliating for her. Since you two are together for 6 years, you definetly know what hurts her (besides breaking up).
Talk to her and explain to her and make her understand. My suggestion, atleast have a friend if not a lover.
2007-01-31 09:28:11 · answer #2 · answered by Josephene 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple - just sit her down and talk to her. It's no different than if you'd been dating less or more time. Just tell her you think the two of you don't have a future together and it would be best to end it. She'll probably be upset - but you never know, she may be feeling the same way and would be relieved to have that talk.
2007-01-31 09:28:59 · answer #3 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that things just aren't working out and that u think its time to move on. Say that its not her that its u and that u want something more exciting in your life and that u two have been together for along time now and that its time to move on. But be nice about it b/c u don't want to hurt her feelings too bad.
2007-01-31 09:27:20 · answer #4 · answered by biggest_duke_fan_ever@yahoo.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are really sure about this then you need to sit her down and say things are just not working out for you... there will prolly be tears and shouting, but stay as calm as you can and be clear this is what you want, do not offer hope if there is none as that would be very unfair on her, but do not stay out of guilt, if you are truely unhappy in this relationship then you have to do whats best for yourself and to make yourself happy.
good luck
2007-01-31 09:24:09 · answer #5 · answered by merrpet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
anything u say to her is going to be painful, after 6 years, must be because u net someone else. just leave her with more self worth than she had. but after 6 years why are u just now finding this out? will hurt her alot, but if u no longer love her it is best.
2007-01-31 09:27:55 · answer #6 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So uncool you got till here...just do it as gentle as you can...say....I have to have a word with you (when you are alone). And then tell her what's in your mind and why you think it's the best choice to cut it off...take care
2007-01-31 09:24:28 · answer #7 · answered by teen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be completely honest with her.... and comforting. Its going to be a hard transition for her, going without someone shes been with for 6 years! Be kind, and calm.
2007-01-31 09:24:31 · answer #8 · answered by britt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
slip out the back Jack
make a new plan Stan
hop on the bus Guss
drop off the key Lee
Jeese, there must be fifty ways to leave your lover.
be cool...
2007-01-31 09:24:58 · answer #9 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Just be honest. Be kind as possible about it. Good luck
2007-01-31 09:23:04 · answer #10 · answered by michaellandonsmommy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋