the girl that i love deeply is having depression for more than 6 years.we been together less than a year but i feel worry and it hurts my heart seeing her thinking things that aren't true.
she would often cry for reason i dont understand.she say she is fat.but i always said i dont mind.i think mainly is bcuz her 1st ex detest her coz she is fat.I HATE HIM!!!she is weak and she still insist on diet.
can anyone PLS help me?any advice that can help cure(can it?? her depression?and do i hv to support her to go for slimming or against it?
2007-01-31 01:05:38 · 4 answers · asked by jason - 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
The reality of man is spiritual, not material. So even thou we may have all the material comfort in the world, our spirit is not satisfied until we find the purpose of our life on earth.
Getting depressed is an alarm mechanism of our spirit that warns us that we must find the purpose of our life. No amount of Valium or any other kind of medication can help us unless we find the reason for our existence.
A good example is to look at the activities of the richest man on earth, Bill Gates. We can see that despite all his riches he is engaged in specific activities that give a real meaning to his life. This is not to deny that his work activity as owner of a giant software company is not highly important too.
The best way to help your girl friend is to assist her in finding out if she has a clear purpose for her existence.
2007-01-31 03:18:59 · answer #1 · answered by apicole 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
you should first bring forth the idea of seeing a doctor to her, take it calmly or she might see this as insulting. She may suffer from bad pmt, or most likely it is her hormones as you say she is dieting and if there is a 10% loss or gain in body mass it effects hormones and periods. Whatever you do you should make sure that you stay there for her supporting her through it all the way if she becomes emotional or arguementative don't argue back, just stay calm.
Theres a little remedy that works wonders for hormones. They're called "evening primrose oil capsules" you can buy them from most herblalists or vitamin suppliers like Holland and Barrats. They're also great for skin too.
If her depression is more seriouse the doctor may subscribe anti-depressants.
Well that's all iv'e got to recomend. Just keep her happy :)
xxxx
2007-01-31 08:54:06 · answer #2 · answered by Binx Meow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she should see a Dr. who should be able to help her, and when she starts crying saying she's fat, please don't say "you don't mind" That doesn't help at all. Tell her that you think she is just right in your eyes and you love her more than anything . If you didn't you wouldn't be with her. Hope this helps.
2007-01-31 01:29:03 · answer #3 · answered by luckylindy0 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can only support her and stand by her side ,don't leave her ,go together out..sorry i can't help more
2007-01-31 01:21:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋