when should I tell him im in love with him.
2007-01-31 00:40:42 · 43 answers · asked by dancin fool : ) 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you feel you love him then tell him. There is never a certain time you should wait. It's just when you feel it in your heart and if you do feel your in love with him then girl what you waiting for TELL HIM :)
2007-01-31 00:58:25 · answer #1 · answered by mari 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Awww im really happy that you met the guy for you.. me and my fella have been together for hhmmm nearly 6months ( i no its not a long time ) but we'r absolutely besotted abowt each other and the love has been there for nearly the whole of the relationship.. its really strange for a guy to tell you he loves you after like two weeks of being together but he told me, i didnt feel the same way so i didnt say it back but he understood.. and i asked how he new so soon and how did he no it was real.. he just said "look you'll know" then abowt two weeks after he'd told me (a month into the relationship) it struck me like an arrow in the *** and i told him and we just got really loved up.. the love hasnt faded a tiny bit just got stronger.. seriously now its never too soon to tell someone you love them you just have to pick the right moment to do it, let him know that if he doesn't feel the same way its fine he can say it wen his ready but then at least ur open with ur feelings its never good to hide them away and u never know he could be feeling the exact same thing and not wanting to tell u incase he scares u off.. honesty is the best policy and you've got a future to plan for.. i really hope this helps and i havent rambled on for too long.. good luck with it all = )
2007-01-31 01:01:43 · answer #2 · answered by cheekyluv 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I say it is never too soon. If u are feelin him like that and u kinda get the same thing with him, i say just say it. It only too me a month to figure out i really loved my bf. I say tell him before its too late. Anything could happen. And when u tell him u love him it will enhance ur relationship somewhat. Especially if hes feeling the same way. Just go for it. 4months is long enough to know if u really like a person or not.
2007-01-31 00:56:03 · answer #3 · answered by gurllucky7 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Give it just a little more time there girl. Just use your actions to speak for you. But don't act too desperate and all or you might scare him off and supress any feelings he has for you. I speak from experience here as that with my first gf and finace same girl by the way we rushed it way to fast. Be friends first best friends if that's what it takes and if that relationship survives the storms of life then you know that he or she your friend that is is definetly a great potential for a future mate especially if you have that compatability. I'm in a boat like this with a current friend of mine. She's falling more for my twin right now but given the chance I could subtly change her mind I just know it. Wish me luck. I wish you the best and your bf the best in all this but give it time girl. True love reveals itself in so many more ways then just up and saying I LOVE YOU. Think about it.
2007-01-31 01:06:57 · answer #4 · answered by dave_83501 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when ever you feel that the time is right. life is too short to hold out not telling someone you love them,just too short. i was dating this guy for 2 months and he told me he loved me. i didn't get freaked out because i also loved him and still do and we are going into 6 months now i we still say i love you every single day. i almost lost him to cancer. he gave up hope and i gave up hope. but he told me yesterday that he is winning, the doctor told him that. honey it's never to late to say i love you nor is it ever too early depends if it were 2 weeks then that would be too early. 4 months is good tell him you love him if that is what you feel in your heart. it's never to late sweetheart never. if that is how you feel let him know,because life comes and goes you never know how long both of you will be here. tell him maybe he's waiting for you to tell him so that he can tell you that he also loves you.
2007-01-31 01:10:34 · answer #5 · answered by kelly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him when you feel it. My boyfriend and I only been together 3 months and we realised we are in love deepy. I dont think there is a real time frame on love.
I waited until I knew I was ready to say it..its scary saying them words for the first time to someone.
Just wait for the right moment when your comfortable to tell him and let him know how you feel.
2007-01-31 00:56:25 · answer #6 · answered by Navulam 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's never to soon becsuae if thats how you feel you can't help that. I only been with my boyfriend for a month and a half, but it feel like forever and I already told him I love him. But just be sure he is the one.
2007-01-31 01:08:41 · answer #7 · answered by Brownie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is no set timeline...my boyfriend and I knew right away...of course, it was said much by accident...we were goofing around one night while out at a club with some friends, I leaned in and whispered 'I want you'...what did I get back? 'I love you too'...not how it typically happens...but it was all good.
However, with that being said...you could be sitting yourself up for a big disappointment if you aren't quite sure how he feels. Guys as a whole typically aren't as forthcoming when saying those words. If he doesn't feel the same, it could, in fact, scare him off.
2007-01-31 01:05:56 · answer #8 · answered by Sunidaze 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I personally don't think it is a time limit for love..when love arrives it is just there! Some people may confuse it with lust times. I am not saying you are but just be careful.
A key difference between love and lust is that lust only cares for itself. Lust always focuses on an object to fulfill its desire. Another key difference between love and lust is that love is completely unselfish. Love has compassion for the object of its affection.
Don't confuse love with lust...make sure you mean it as well as feel it..that is not a word that you can just throw around to anyone..when you say it mean it! And make sure he is on the same page with you when it comes to love ok! Don't want you to get your feelings hurt. But if you both feel the same way then that is even better.
Good luck in love! Love is a wonderful thing and precious to have I wish you luck with that! Enjoy!
2007-01-31 01:00:17 · answer #9 · answered by Mia-Mia 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months and I am totally in love with him. And he knows it. I think that as long as the time is right and you are SURE that it is love and not lust, then tell him whenever YOU feel comfortable.
If he does not say it back, maybe he just isnt ready yet.
2007-01-31 00:56:15 · answer #10 · answered by the_one_and_only_punkette 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋