I have known this girl for about 3 months now. About the time a met her I asked her if she wanted to go to the movies. She said sure, and seemed genuinely interested in going. We planned a date, and she got sick. Again and again every time she would end up being busy or sick or some excuse. I don't know if I like her any more but I still want to go to the movies with her. She always comes up to me still and starts conversations and talks to me quite a bit and texts me, but whenever I bring up the movies she says she wants to go soon, but she is busy. Is she really busy? Why do girls do that? Is she serious, or just being nice to me. I have asked her to be honest and to tell me if she didn't want to go, but she insists she does. If it's been like 2 and a half months do you think she even wants to go? Please help me.
2007-01-31 00:35:42 · 15 answers · asked by Nathan G 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she's playing with you, she knows that you want to take her out so she's testing you to see how long you can keep it up. if i were you just stay away from her an only talk to her if you have to, she'll probably get clingy and ask you why so just say if you wanna go out then sure but dont mess me around!!!!
2007-01-31 00:48:09 · answer #1 · answered by nutti_chick 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Unfortunately it sounds to me that this girl is playing with your emotions. She obviously knows you like her and she is having some fun with it. I don't think she has any intention of going o a date with you. The best advice i could give to you is forget about this girl, show your not interested anymore and that it was a temporary thing. You can still be friends if you like but if i were you i would get rid of her completely.
2007-01-31 01:06:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
have you ever heard of the rejection mennover, im just asking, no need to freak out hun. but that is what it seems like to me, she seems to be a complete snot if i should say so myself.
now a fling is always good to have because it teaches you of what mistakes you have made and how they got there in the first place, so there for you are prepared next time around. i am not gonna say move on, coz it aint gonna work, expecally if someone like yourself is hooked.
now in my prespective there are some girls who just dont like to go the movies. coz in a girl like her in her mind she may think your a little cheap, cheap, cheap.
ask her out to dinner, a fancy resturaunt, no burger king or wendys. make arrangments, set dates, and stick to plans.
and what you could also do is ask her what she wants to do, it aint always about you, and what YOU want to do, if you like her SOOOOOOOO much then let her decide.
i aint tring to be arrogent or brash but some girls thing that way, and some of them are REALLY superfical. ok
ok
good luck
2007-01-31 00:59:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
wow... she is playing you for a fool... I would really talk to her and just let her know how you are feeling and see what she has to say... and just be like "ya know... I still really like to go to the movies with you but it seems that you always have something going on after you say you want to go... do you really want to? because if you dont you can just say so..." and see what she says... :)
Hope it all works out...
Happy Wednesday!
2007-01-31 01:01:46 · answer #4 · answered by Sidney 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Nathan, the harsh reality is that you are clueless.
You are probably very young right? maybe like a teen correct?
She knows that you want to hang out with her sooo badly that it just turns her off big time.
No guy or girl wants to hang out with someone who is soooo desperate to hang out with them.
When you tell her about Cinthia and Julia who were not such prudes about going out to the movies and Rebecca who always seems to be available for some good times then maybe she will realize you can and will be spending your time more wisely and she better take you up on the next OPPORTUNITY that you decide to offer her.
Oh that's right, she is your only option because you can't get your retarded brain to stop thinking only about "her". She is that import to you. Oh well then you are up s h i t s creek without a paddle.
edit: Ladies, don't get mad! I am not tell him to be like this with a women that he is in a loving, committed relationship with.
I am saying that they are just friends and she blew him off too many times to deserve to be anyone special and important in his life. She needs to earn that position and agreeing on a date then canceling more than once is a pathetic and hurtful way of hinting to someone that they are really not into them.
2007-01-31 00:49:53 · answer #5 · answered by Willie 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
She just dont want 2 annoy u by refusing.She might not like for going to movies.Plan something else or she is really in problem.Try 2 sort that
2007-01-31 01:17:35 · answer #6 · answered by Sania 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh Ive felt that before too.... You know the guy is really hot but you dont want to go but you do......and then pictures flash by you ANd then you feel unsure about it... So make her like comfortable being around you....
2007-01-31 00:48:38 · answer #7 · answered by Victoria Isabella 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude she is totally messing wit your head! just leave her alone. if she really does like you then she will be the one coming around begin you to go out to the movies. just see what happens!
2007-01-31 01:08:31 · answer #8 · answered by Desi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you sure she doesn't have a boyfriend ?She 's trying to be nice to you .But ,as you asked her to be honest and to tell you if she didn't want to go,you 'd better be frank with her &ask yourself "do I really love her" if yes ask her if she minds to be your girl....
2007-01-31 00:53:20 · answer #9 · answered by Emmy 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Try suggesting something other than a movie, like coffee or dinner or something. Then if she doesn't show, I would say forget it.
2007-01-31 01:01:32 · answer #10 · answered by deppfreak6963 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋