Which is better, love marriage or arrange marriage ?
2007-01-31 00:26:42 · 19 answers · asked by shiva 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Always love marriage.
How can you get married to someone you don't love? Even in the world we live in today, many people get married for money, convenience and even arranged.... Even though we are all different and have been brought up to believe different things, personally, in my case, marriage can not survive or be a happy one without love.
2007-01-31 00:30:29 · answer #1 · answered by Jojo 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A strange question but I will answer.
Without a doubt it would have to be Love. With an arranged married there is no knowing if the 2 are compatible or not. There is no knowing if there will be love, there is too much to chance and as a general in arranged marriaged they do stay together but it is not out of love. I could not stay married if there was no love
2007-01-31 00:31:49 · answer #2 · answered by Mike 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Any one can be better if the person is right for you. But if there are two right persons, one for love marriage and another for arranged, then it is better to go for the love marriage. It is never comparable how easy you feel with your loved one just after marriage and with the stranger. Love marriage means pre-understanding, where arranged marriage is post marital understanding.
2007-01-31 00:34:08 · answer #3 · answered by misridana 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Arranged marriage is well planned & much better. Before finalisation before engagement, both the boy & the girl should meet more than once with parents & final 'yes' or 'no' must be decided by them, not under any pressure. Most important thing is that 'husband-wife' mutual deep love, affection & intimacy 'must' increase after marriage, i.e., after 'wedding - honeymoon period', the most important purpose of 'marriage'. In a love marriage, as the boy & the girl have already passed through so many things closely, the real charm of deep love & affection does not have the intensity in needs & actually reduces with time. Arranged marriage does not mean that boy & girl are not allowed to see each other or not having any right to have any information with the fiance & family details & everything is decided by parents under force. No such thing is there at least in urban people. Everything is discussed in detail with the person to be married.
2016-03-28 22:08:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A love marriage is always better. Arranged marriages aren't real.
2007-01-31 00:30:39 · answer #5 · answered by Greg S 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Uhh, do u really think arranged marriage is okay for anyone??? No its not, nobody wants to get married to a person they dont love and will have to spend eternity with them! Love marriage is the way to go
2007-01-31 00:30:19 · answer #6 · answered by Vinnie R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think there are pro's and con's for both. I will however say that there is a lower divorce rate amongst arranged marriages. But then on the other hand i support a persons right to guide their own destiny- to live a life of their own will and volition :)
2007-01-31 00:35:52 · answer #7 · answered by natasha v 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely love marriage...cos you chose it yourself and the love is there...u won't have love for arranged marriage and i think that's not fair at all, parents not neccessarily make good judgements at time...what if he/she turns out to be bad?? Furthermore, marriage is between 2 person and your parents won't be in it.
2007-01-31 00:32:11 · answer #8 · answered by DooGie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love marriage definately!
2007-01-31 01:19:32 · answer #9 · answered by jacksonblonde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my opinion, an arranged marriage would be awful but thats just me :) if arranged marriage is part of someones culture then i guess they dont have a choice
2007-01-31 00:29:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋