My beloved mother passed away recently. Because she was only person who understood me well always. I wish I could spend more time with her. Now, sometimes, I feel there is no meaning in my life.
2007-01-31 00:16:13 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
life must go on! though its hard but you must... your mom wont be happy if she's seeing you like that. you know? when my brother died, it took me over 4 years to accept that he's really gone, i realized that ive been making hard on him to continue walking with his journey thats why l learned to let him go and pooof! im much happier now than before because i let him continue walking and happy and be where he really be.
just pray and think that youre still blessed because you had an angel beside you all day... your mom is just only PHYSICALLY gone. ok?
2007-01-31 00:34:19 · answer #1 · answered by m0cca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
words can't possibly express how hard this is for you. go and try to get into some counseling. keep your mom alive by remembering the great person she was and the great things she did. find some good people out there who will support you and help you through this. find a way to keep busy. by doing this it will keep your mind focused of something else because the more free time you have, the more likely it is that you will sit around and think of this and be really sad. make sure that this loss does not lead you into depression. i've been living with depression now for over 10 years and let me tell you from experience that it is one of the worst things to go through especially with no one around. just try to think positive and continue to be the best person you can be. that is all any of us can do in this situation. hope this helps. good luck.
2007-01-31 06:31:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honor your mother by living a good life. I know that you are in pain but she loved you and would not want you to feel like this. I don't know how old you are but if you are alone now know that it will not always be this way. I found someone who loves and accepts me and we have a wonderful life together. You can too. When you least expect it it will happen. Hang in there.
2007-01-31 00:27:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW - MY eyes just filled up reading ur question !!
I couldn't imagine this happening to me ! Your feelings are obviously normal .....and yes u need someone to talk to !! The person must be a great person though ....someone that can understand and not just sit and listen or use u for the money ! You need to feel comfortable with them !
Something to think about .....your mother had a full and good life ....she would not want to see you suffering right now !! All mothers want their children happy ....... SWEETY ...CELEBRATE HER LIFE NOT HER DEATH !!
MY HEART goes out to you .....ur in my prayers and thoughts! All the BEST !
2007-01-31 00:24:30 · answer #4 · answered by SARAH♫☼ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand that you loved your mother dearly, and you were best friends, but you have to come to terms with the fact that the point of life is to live it. nothing more, nothing less. Just make the most of things
Please don't feel too sad, go out and enjoy yourself, do things that make you truly happy. if you are stuck in a job you hate, make steps to move forward and do something you love.
I'm sure your mother would want you to be happy, so please try to honour her even in death and make the most of the life that she gave you.
2007-01-31 00:23:50 · answer #5 · answered by anouska1983 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Death is not something that should be feared. It will happen. There is nothing that can be done to stop it. You have no more control over that than you do in your ability to change the events of the past; stop the sun from shining; stop the earth from rotating. I realize that nothing stays the same. All things change. for me, meaning of life is to show compassion to my fellow man; not to judge and belittle others because their belief is different from my own; to strive for enlightenment; not to cause suffering to others through my words, actions or thoughts. My body will cease to exist but my karmic energy will continue into the next life as I continue to work towards the goal of enlightenment.
2016-05-23 22:30:25 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very hard to get past losing a parent ....but think of what she would say to you right now and how she would feel knowing that you have given up on your self ...no one is here forever and she has left you with the tools to survive in life don't make her teachings to you in vain.....you will always miss her and you are a part of her.... remember that
2007-01-31 01:30:00 · answer #7 · answered by kellygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet there a lot of people who has dealt with the same problem has you. We all know ur sad, yes. But its life.....its not like u killed her right? So u should feel gulity or sad, she'll be in heaven watching you to protect you, so u have an angel by ur side. Your not alone because ur always going to be surround by people and friends.
2007-01-31 00:29:09 · answer #8 · answered by Vinnie R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I know how you feel, but from we are born we have to get used to the fact that our parents might precede us in death. That is why we should love them as much as we can while we have the opportunity to. Time will heal your sorrow. In the meantime try to gt out more often and make friends.
2007-01-31 00:21:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anthony F 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
To lose a love one seem so unfair,
I'm a Friend to comfort in your time of despair.
I so sorry for your loss. I too have lost a many loved ones.
I have something for you to read:
The ones we love don't fade away,
They walk beside us day by day.
UN seen UN heard, always near,
Never far, and loved so dear.
Peace Be Thine...
^j^ Sandra ^j^
2007-01-31 00:45:52 · answer #10 · answered by Bluelady... 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋