I feel like the lowest horse in the herd. I have a problem, and I am not quite sure what to do about it. I feel invisible sometimes. People seem to always cut in front of me in lines (happens all the time). Another example, when I walk on the sidewalk I am always forced to get out of other people's way, they never move for me. I've tried walking 'taller' but it is actually my inside feelings that do it I think. Anyway, I am PISSED OFF and tired of it. What can I do?
2007-01-31 00:10:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
we all have our insecurities, i know i do.
now this world is full of missrable people and those people refuse to consider others feelings.
it has nothing to do with walking then getting shoved its about rude ignorent people.
now i aint saying that im an angel coz i myself have been pretty rude towards others, and that goes for everybody in this world and on yahoo answers.
you shouldent feel this way just because others show it to you. allm you need to do is just basiclly forget it. i know its easies said then done but you got to move on, the world is full of jerks, they are bound to make us feel like crap, because they get off on it, and they feel like crap themselfs.
next time someone cuts infront of you in a line butt them out back and say '' um exuse me im pretty sure i was here first, you should get in line like the rest of us,'' but make your voice heard hun, dont shy away, look im a very brash women and if something bothers me and pisses me off i make myself heard, and i make sure everyone in the whole room hears it too.
make them look bad for once immbarasse them, make them move for you when your walking. its all about your stamina hun, the point of walking taller insist of stamina,.
the voice you hear in your head and the way you feel on the inside just your subcousoiuse (mide my spelling lol) from what your used to is making you feel like s**t inside and out.
dont let it, just be yourself, and if you need to throw in a little attitude then so be it
ok hun
trust me people like that is who made me the person i am today, a total b***h towards aholes, and a little arrogent towards people who mean nothing to me.
dont put up with this, like bob marly sang
'' get up stand up. stand up for your right''
good luck, and take care of yourself
2007-01-31 00:37:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we all go through this some time or another in life. when i feel that way, i dress differently. there are some items in my wardrobe that make me feel like a million bucks. when i put those particular outfits on, my mood changes, my 'attitude' shows a little more and the rest follows.
if you don't have a "power" outfit, find a power color - something that makes you feel more alive and more assertive. wear that color when you're feeling down.
my last suggestion would be to treat yourself to a really great (even pricey, if you will) bra and panty set. buy something that makes you feel sexy...only you will know when you have them on. as you go through your day, keep reminding yourself that you have on some smokin' undies. it's sort of like you know something that no one else does.
good luck and i hope you feel better soon!
2007-01-31 12:08:53 · answer #2 · answered by YSIC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get the thing iam the best person in the world and think in your mind that you are the person can do anything and everything and have that spirit and go on
2007-01-31 08:56:31 · answer #3 · answered by PRASSANA K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't think i that way.u should not loose ur confidence bcos of others.it just happens for every one.
2007-01-31 08:58:07 · answer #4 · answered by siva k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fake it and it will eventually be natural for you.
2007-01-31 09:41:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋