Ok, this is a question for everyone. my personal experience, I just wanted to know others opinions. Same old story I was seeing a guy on & off for the past 7 months. I broke it off & finalised it, due to the fact the he wasn't in the frame of mind for settling down or having a proper relationship right now. But from day 1, I can say we clicked, laughed like crazy,shared the same sense of humour got on very well intellectually. We both felt this on both parts. Every time I decided to move on as I knew what I wanted, & am a very INDEPENDENT woman. This guy would come back & tell me how much he misses me, someone to liaise with, ask advice, share things with & my company as a whole! I decided to lay the cards out on the table & ask him wanted he saying etc as he was way too indecisive & he didn't know what he wanted. A few weeks/month later he calls me & tells me how much he has lost an asset and such good quality. My question to u is do u think you have 2 ignore a ex 4 them to realise?
2007-01-31 00:04:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
once you leave an ex...that is when they realize that they can't be without you....
thats just how it goes....BELIEVE me I know.....
2007-01-31 00:07:50 · answer #1 · answered by La'Grange 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do not ignore.guys dun get the signals.but the time they get it it will be too late or else they will never get it.stay friends thats is better.but remember stay friends only not more than that cause u dun need to hurt each other unless both of u wants it casual.
i went out with this gus for 4 years.i stayed on and be there for him.just like you.he is indecisive and not ready yet to moved on.
but it become a stage where he takes things for granted.now i have moved on and going out with a new guy for two years and planning to get married.
all guys are not the same. is he worth it? think about that.
ignoring is not the solution.i have tried it.things didnt change.
2007-01-31 00:14:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes we do not realize what we have until we have lost it. The question however is - does he want to commit now or he just wants you to help him along and then when things are OK he goes. lay it once again girl and if he is still indecisive, let him go
2007-01-31 00:12:17 · answer #3 · answered by pet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know what to tell you, but i had something like this happen.
i use to talk to this guy for about a year and a half and then we finally started dating. i fell in love with him and we were both happy..but i broke up with him because things wernt going well. but after we broke up i wanted to go back out with him but he had moved on. i tried to talk to him everyday but slowly he forgot me. if he doesnt mean much to you, move on and find someone that means alot to you, but if he does then you can make things work out.
i hope i helped.
2007-01-31 00:12:09 · answer #4 · answered by unknown 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In this particular case, you have to ignore him. You have to remain unresponsive until he makes up his mind as to what he really wants.Do not try to render any help as you are not sure of all that is going through his mind... and I'm telling you that you don't want to know.
Finally, if you want him, let it show, but subtly...
2007-01-31 00:14:00 · answer #5 · answered by agboola f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you need to ignore ..But confront and talk what is expected of u and his.then if u r not able to come to a point then no point think about ..
If before marriage u have such conflicts.. then what after marrraige.
thank you
2007-01-31 00:14:31 · answer #6 · answered by deva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought you were my ex typing this for a minute, that paragraph basically describes the last relationship I was in.
2007-01-31 00:08:36 · answer #7 · answered by uabsupercow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes not sure what he wants are you willing to wait for ever?
2007-01-31 00:08:52 · answer #8 · answered by peg42857 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember this, "If you love someone, let them go, if it was meant to be, they will come back."
2007-01-31 00:08:27 · answer #9 · answered by Cartman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, absence makes the heart grow fonder!
2007-01-31 00:07:43 · answer #10 · answered by im*horny 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES. Just tell him to leave you alone, you are not interested anymore.
2007-01-31 00:07:34 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋