Why is my friend mad?

Question

I got mad at one of my friends only because she said we'd hang out and then she never calls me or answers my phone calls and I realize I wont see her as much as before she got her boyfriend but I feel like she cut me out of her life. Me, her, her boyfriend and my now ex used to hang out all the time, now its like im the odd one out. I am friends with her boyfriend and I was telling him how im upset because I feel like I am losing my best friend. Shes now mad at me because she said she did nothing wrong. How do I fix this, we have been friends for 6 years and I dont want to lose the one of few friends I actually consider real friends.

Answer 1

i would suggest that you just cool off, and let her think about what she did, becuz if she doesnt realize that you feel hurt becuz she's been cuttin u out whether she did it on purpose or not, if she doesnt realize it then she doesnt know you at all and 6 years of friendship must not of meant anything to her...
(only try to talk to her about this again, if you feel she doesn't have a clear understanding of how the situation is making you feel)

Answer 2

If she is ur real friend, then u got nothing to worry cos she will think abt u often and be there when u need. You don't need to force someone to be ur friend...if she don't treat u like one, that means she ain't a true friend after all.

Answer 3

hmm its natural to lose a bit of contact with your friends esp when they are attached. its just the way of life and as you get older, its even more so when they get married or even have kids. they just disappear from the social scene. that's life. i have lose some of my closer pals but gain some along the way too.