2007-01-30 23:10:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I just want to get the upper hand, there is nothing wrong with that. I'm fabulous and he can't see it, he takes my love for granted....not anymore! How can I dump him in a way that makes him yearn for me? I know it's an immature approach, but he's treated me bad....should I....when he calls, never answer or answer and tell him I'm just not attracted to him anymore? give me some tips! thanks xx
2007-01-30 23:12:26 · update #1
Please don't diss me, I've really had it hard with him, he's treated me soooo bad.
2007-01-30 23:21:22 · update #2
I can't understand why you'd want to be with him if he's taking you for granted and treating you bad. If I were you, I'd tell him it's time for you to move on because you deserve better in life. You deserve to be treated better.
2007-01-30 23:17:32 · answer #1 · answered by Eat At The Y 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never answer his calls and don't contact him. Think about it, wouldn't that bug you if your ex suddenly just disappeared? That will make him think you really don't care and what could hurt more? He'll be constantly wondering what you're up to. Plus, in the process of losing all contact with him, you'll soon realize that you're over him and you REALLY don't care anymore! Win/win situation. You'll come off looking gracious and laid back. If he's gonna second guess what he did to you, let him remember you in a positive light, don't turn into a crazy ex. He'll really feel like crap if you don't even do anything to hurt him back.
2007-01-31 07:31:22 · answer #2 · answered by Ms. M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say this is a delicate situation that will end up backfiring on you.
Men don't always react the way you predict, You could lose him for good.
Your going to just have to talk to him & tell him you've about had it with him.
If he cares anything for you he will try to change, If not then he doesn't deserve you anyway.
Good Luck
2007-01-31 07:17:14 · answer #3 · answered by earthangel_candy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just avoid him and behave as if you are having a fabolous time with a mysterious guy.Let him call for a max of 3times then pick it and tell him to call you later cos you are a bit swamped. Then turn off your phone.
2007-01-31 07:17:33 · answer #4 · answered by cynnie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's treated you bad - you don't want or need him back. Dump him and move on with your life. Success is the best revenge ;o)
2007-01-31 07:26:26 · answer #5 · answered by Skidoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest and open tell him you feel he is taking you for granted and if he doesnt pull his head in then you will dump him.Then stick to the plan and find someone who will appreciate you.
2007-01-31 07:17:04 · answer #6 · answered by deborah a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all u could acctually do is like tell him that thers alllloooot of guys there out yearning for ur love and that he relly lost u and then dump him and the next day or the day after go out with a guy who is hott and has good looks..!! good luck
2007-01-31 07:18:14 · answer #7 · answered by gurlie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just dump him and get over it...since u said that ur great, am sure there are someone out there waiting for u to say yes. Me perhaps? :)
2007-01-31 07:15:36 · answer #8 · answered by DooGie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only tip is - find someone way much better - like better looking, better equipped, better with money, and inform your current bf that u re dumping him for someone who is way much better. this is gonna piss him off sooooo much and make u sooo proud and revenged
2007-01-31 07:15:15 · answer #9 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, you are 100% correct! it is an immature approach - why don't you just leave the guy alone? if you were so fab, it wouldn't be necessary to try and convince him of it, just leave it alone and move on...
2007-01-31 07:23:41 · answer #10 · answered by Bite Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋