I've got a crush on a guy who use to work with me. I rang him to say hello... i told him who i was and he initially couldn't remember me ( although he's left for just over a month?) is he pretending this? he said that we should catch up sometime and have coffee but he doesn't specify when and nevered called back. Before he left he asked for my number but nevered stayed in contact. What's going on? so confused. Sometimes it feels like he's interested but other times i feel so distant.
2007-01-30 22:16:17 · 4 answers · asked by Pink Lotus 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on. Obviously he isn't interested.
2007-01-31 04:11:38 · answer #1 · answered by Phillip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's really taking his time to be sure that you're NOW serious with him having been together at work with him before but with a different attitude. See, I'm a guy too and I'll feel the same if I were in his shoes cos of your "sudden" strange feelings for me. But that doesn't mean that there's no hope. As a matter of fact, what you need to do now is to convince him that you're serious with your feelings for him. Once you can successfully arrange a meeting with him and get more physical, I can see you both coming together in a relationship that can NEVER be equalled - trust me. Cheers!
2007-01-31 06:28:04 · answer #2 · answered by mykemejeje 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not that easy to tell if the guy is truly interested, sometimes we mistake a simple gesture or word for being interested when it actually means nothing.
you could call him again and ask for that coffee date. if he is still vague on when and where....then he's probably not thinking of you. well, dont feel bad, be thankful its just a crush =) hopefully itll fade away soon, besides you wont be seeing him anymore.
2007-01-31 08:58:59 · answer #3 · answered by rinkumi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was only trying to be nice to you.. you prob knew that you liked him... you should not call him again.. he will only make a fool of you!!
2007-01-31 06:21:55 · answer #4 · answered by lollie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋