i have been texting seeing a guy on and off sense september, and he had just came out of a relationship after 3 years and his ex broke up with him and moved on straight to another relationship. i was giving him space by only txting him now and again just to let him know i was still interested as he said he had enough of relationships to last him a life time. he came out over christmas to meet me and we were having a great night until something happened and ruined the night. so a few days later i txted him to see how he was he said fine but was taking a few days break. i told him to have a good time and would he like to see me again and he said he would give me a txt. i left it for a month before txting him again did so on monday just asked "hows things" he replyed and i sent another message and heard nothing back, so later that night i sent him a message to say "would u rather i didn't txt u again" and no reply.if he doesn't want me txting, i gave him a easy way out.
2007-01-30 22:02:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To me I would think that his ex had been back in touch.....I would just leave it for now and see if he gets in touch with you...
Try not to get too hung up on it....x
2007-01-30 22:07:43 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not at all ready. Even if he started a relationship with you, it would be a rebound, and I don't know of any rebound relationship that works. Don't get in touch with him, you'll come off as desperate. The last thing he wants is a desperate, clingy woman. That's pretty much how he'll see it from where he is right now.. Find a guy who is ready to date. Then it won't matter that this didn't work. In a short while, you won't even remember him--not even a blip on the radar. You deserve someone who can concentrate on what's going on.
2007-01-31 06:13:43 · answer #2 · answered by Loki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me that this guy is still messed up in the head and very confused at the mo because of splitting up with his ex. Not responding to your texts is a sign hes not ready to commit, or perhaps ready for a new relationship. No matter how much u like him its seems pretty clear things are not gonna work out smoothly, theres plenty of single guys out there ready and up for dating, you just have to find them or let them find u (im sure you'll have no problems). Dont text him anymore, you've done enough. In my personal and honest opinion i would forget him and move on its too much emotional baggage, just take it as a lesson. Theres someone special out there for you, Good luck and take care x
2007-01-31 06:46:01 · answer #3 · answered by happychappie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Screw the txt. If u like him call him and ask him flat out what the score is. If you txt you will keep wondering and give yourself no closure. Your talking bout easy for him... what about easy for you?
A yes or no isn't difficult. its a matter of respect.
If he tells you he needs space again, tell him to get a job at NASA as an astronaut and move on.
2007-01-31 06:11:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Think You Have To Move on, And Dont Waste Your Time to Him...He Dint Deserve You...
2007-01-31 06:11:21 · answer #5 · answered by naomi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now all you have to do is take the hint. He is not interested in having further contact with you. It's obvious.
2007-01-31 06:28:22 · answer #6 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya forget about him anyway hes not interested sorry.
jus move on plenty good guys out there lik me....hahaha only messin theres a guy out there waitin for you go get him
2007-01-31 06:11:04 · answer #7 · answered by shane o d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it up my dear, its obvious he has no intrest in you or he would have text you back, or he is with someone else and is holdin you in reserve like a spare wheel,forget about him.
2007-01-31 20:51:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
since he hasn't taken the initiative to text you.....Yes I would prefer it if you QUIT texting me............you "gave" him an easy way out.....he already TOOK the easy way out...he's not interested....move on...
2007-01-31 06:07:52 · answer #9 · answered by abc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have put the ball in his court, wait and see but don't get your hopes up. good luck.
2007-01-31 06:55:11 · answer #10 · answered by Fallen Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋