Ok, this is a question for everyone. my personal experience, I just wanted to know others opinions. Same old story I was seeing a guy on & off for the past 7 months. I broke it off & finalised it, due to the fact the he wasn't in the frame of mind for settling down or having a proper relationship right now. But from day 1, I can say we clicked, laughed like crazy,shared the same sense of humour got on very well intellectually. We both felt this on both parts. Every time I decided to move on as I knew what I wanted, & am a very INDEPENDENT woman. This guy would come back & tell me how much he misses me, someone to liaise with, ask advice, share things with & my company as a whole! I decided to lay the cards out on the table & ask him wanted he saying etc as he was way too indecisive & he didn't know what he wanted. A few weeks/month later he calls me & tells me how much he has lost an asset and such good quality. My question to u is do u think you have 2 ignore a ex 4 them to realise?
2007-01-30 21:55:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he's not ready for a commitment don't push him to make one. Be happy that you have a friend. Maybe he'll change his mind. In the mean time date other guys maybe you'll find one who wants the kind of relationship you're looking. If you like this guy don't ignore him you can still be friends
2007-01-30 22:08:21 · answer #1 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All guys now a days have a big commitment problem as if, if they commit they are going to hang on to you forever. No relationships are secured forever. then if one likes someone, I fail to understand what they fear. Go ahead and try to convince him with love but do not pressurise.
2007-01-31 06:17:51 · answer #2 · answered by gsha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sumtyms, det MIGHT work.sometimes. try it out if you want to, see how it goes.
just be sure det ure not gonna be treated like a doormat, sumone he can choose evrynow and den to be with or not. as u said, ure INDEPENDENT.
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2007-01-31 06:02:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
Don't speak to him again.
2007-01-31 06:01:04 · answer #4 · answered by Moz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋