do guys care if they get together woth a virgin? do they prefer her not to be, do they accept that some girls are still virgins when they get with them?.do they accept it and understand? will they wait,? im not saying 2 wait till getting married but wait until the girl is ready. plz let all us girls out ther no the real truth about it. thanks ;-)
2007-01-30 21:55:56 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
here is the thing... different people like different things... some prefer blondes over brunettes or vice versa... some guys will NOT date vegans, or women with criminal records, whereas some might get turned on by that thing...
here is my theory on virgins... i think it's admirable that a girl will wait for marriage, especially this day and age, but i do NOT recommend it... you think it was hard NOT having sex?? some years down the road, i don't care who u are or what u say, you WILL be curious as to what sex would've been like with someone else... why?? it's human nature to COMPARE and whatnot, but if u have nothing to compare it to, how do u know that the sex with your partner is what u want or is the best that it can be??
just my two cents...
2007-01-30 22:03:07 · answer #1 · answered by shoei7 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I don't really care if the girl is a virgin or if she has had sex before. As long as she wasn't a sex machine. A few.. alright. But if could pick.. I would pick the virgin. I think it is awesome if a girl wants to be careful. And wants to wait a bit. Sex is awesome, but only if it is with someone you care about. So if any guy can't control his penis long enough to wait for the right time for you, then maybe he isn't the right one. The real truth is, no guy who is serious about a girl, likes a whore. Our penis likes whores, not anything else. So if your a whore.. don't be surprised when the guy runs off. You weren't pleasing him, you were pleasing the other guy! Mr. Happy. But any decent guy wouldn't think nothing about a girl being a virgin. Most I think, would like it. That's fresh, clean stuff right there, and you get to be the first? Where don't you win? And like I said, if the girl has had a few, it's cool. They have a clit, we have a penis. They both make us do things.
2007-01-30 22:13:50 · answer #2 · answered by Cody B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that some guys out there are accepting and understanding about virginity if its a good guy he might even be happy that the girl is a virgin because that means they respect themselves enough not to sleep with just anyone and yes if you are lucky enough to find that special guy who really cares for you and respects you he will be willing to wait until the girl is ready.
2007-02-07 17:03:00 · answer #3 · answered by Goth Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking from experience (I had a relationship where the girl was a virgin), I personally don't mind but I know that 9 times out of 10 the relationship won't be THE relationship as most people want to experience more than one person sexually in their life. There may be people who at the time think this is BS but times and people change and more experiences are needed.
I was in this relationship for a year and a half and she wasn't ready for sex for 4 months, I respected this but at the same time did find it very frustrating... but then we split because of what I mentioned in the above paragraph, I was her first love and at the time I reckon she thought she wouldn't ever want anyone else but like I say, people change and time moves on.
2007-01-30 22:28:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt have thought it would have made much of a difference. I think it is important for any young woman (virgin or otherwise) to wait until she is ready before entering a sexual relationship. You dont have less meaningful relationships because you've had sex before. I have a 5 year old daughter and she was not conceived by the guy I had lost my virginity to. It didnt mean that the relationship with her father was less meaningful.
If any woman is in a relationship where the guy is not willing to wait until she is ready for sex, then the guy is simply not worth it. This goes for virgins and non virgins.
2007-02-05 22:35:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there are guys who really care about ur sexual choices and plans. Getting involved with a virgin its a big thing to mean meaning they love it bcause they will be the first one to break if possible. Now let me tell you, a virgin girl is a very special person bcause its rare u find a gal like that, so keep ur virginity until u get married. Thats my advice. Break it when u r really ready. Enjoy ur virginity and be proud of it because u r special. Take good care of yourself and I am telling u u will find a caring. loving and a good man.
2007-01-30 22:34:16 · answer #6 · answered by Joe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the guy. Personally if i like a girl i dont really care if she is a virgin or not. But if i had a choice i would rather go out with a virgin as its more special, the relationship would be more meaniful, and the girl would be more committed. Plus i would be the first/only person to give her all my love.
2007-01-30 22:17:17 · answer #7 · answered by happychappie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys will brag to taking a girls virginity, they're no good. The right lad will wait till you're ready
2007-02-05 10:23:16 · answer #8 · answered by KATIE K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking for myself, I do not expect to meet many virgins but if I knew I was entering a relationship with one then I would be understanding of her feelings and wait until she is ready before raising the issue of sex in a serious way.
2007-01-30 22:02:31 · answer #9 · answered by Jim 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it matters. Everybody is a virgin sometime in their life. The main thing 2 remember is don't let him rush you. you wil be ready in ur own time. Nobody can rush you ad if they do then they are not really people who you need round you. Only you can decide whether you're ready or not. If it is a bf that is trying to rush then he just wants you for the sex. Dump him and find your self another man girl. Hope I have helped. xxx
2007-02-07 02:42:29 · answer #10 · answered by x x Sxc gyal x x 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋