i met a guy over xmas. it was a easy meeting tho we got close and told each other things we would not normally say so soon after meet'g. we are both in our 30's so we were sensible about the fact that it may have just been a summer romance. tho i am going to his country in june 4 work. do i tell him or wait til i get there? i don't want him to think that i'm going because of him.
2007-01-30 21:32:40 · 4 answers · asked by divine i 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
LOL... I've just gone thru a similar thing and asked a question about it.
I told him and he was dead set excited about it, except for that i had to work... I gave him my travel plans and the details of where I was staying and told him I'd love to catch up. If we did excellent if not, it would be a shame but his loss.
I your guy will only freak out and think your going there for him if you let him know your staying at his house, or go there for work and don't do any!
If you turn up out of the blue he might think your a stalker! (Giggles).
Seriously tho better that you know his reaction now than get there and be dissapointed and have it affect your trip.
2007-01-30 21:46:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are certain details that you could never fill us in on that are very important in order to help you (body language, things of that sort). What I'm trying to say is that you are matured enough to be able to decide if you want adventure or not. Whichever way it turns out might just be as a result of the decision you are now about to make and how much you are willing to stick to it.
You must well be aware of the fact that all life decision is accompanied by a percentage of risk.
2007-01-31 05:50:16 · answer #2 · answered by agboola f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would let him know just in case you bump into him and then he might get upset that you did not tell him you were coming over for business. Just drop him a line telling him and see what he says back to you.
Why have you not kept in touch since leaving, there must be some thing there.
Well good luck hope it goes the way you want it to.
2007-01-31 05:41:29 · answer #3 · answered by Pinkflower 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why not why don't you want to tell him it's not like u are askijg him for anything or try to impose yourself so just tell him i think it's gonna make better sence that way.
2007-01-31 05:47:11 · answer #4 · answered by shiva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋