2007-01-30 20:45:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
"Spoiled" means "overly pampered", and someone had to have done that pampering. A "spoiled kid" is a kid that has been spoiled *by someone*, as in "His parents/nanny/grandparents spolied him rotten".
So yes, it is the fault of whoever takes care of the kid.
In contrast, there are "difficult" kids and "badly behaved" kids. This is not always the parents' fault. Sometimes a kid has a personality problem, or some external event has changed his life and his behavior along with it.
I have seen good parents struggle to handle a difficult kid -- and they really were not to blame.
2007-01-30 22:18:38 · answer #1 · answered by Victoria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spoiling is the parent's fault. Parents have to draw clear boundaries and stick to them. Kids will be brats when they know that they can get their way if they just keep pushing. No needs to mean no. If grandparents are spoiling the kid, it's still the parents fault if the kids are brats. They need to either let the grandparents know what the boundaries are or make sure their kids understand that what happens at Grandma's/Grandpa's doesn't happen at home. Good kids can withstand occasional spoiling (ice cream every time they're at Grandma's) if mom and dad make them follow the rules the rest of the time.
2007-01-31 01:24:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
None of the above. Great grand parents on both sides are at fault. I am not joking.People are spoiled for generations.
2007-01-30 20:56:32 · answer #3 · answered by J.SWAMY I ఇ జ స్వామి 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, You can give kids what they want, and there is a line. if you go over that line. then they are spoiled. and parents are at Fault there. But most kids know where that line is. But it is ok to be Spoiled. Grandpants are a big part of spoiling the kids.
2007-02-02 16:12:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-01 22:57:18 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends - I have no problem with kids acting poorly as long as they are being disciplined for their misbehavior, I mean come on, kids are kids Part of parenting is teaching the difference between right and wrong. It's the parents who ignore this behavior that are at fault.
2007-01-30 21:04:01 · answer #6 · answered by olschoolmom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on how spilt the brat is. there is a level it will be and you say it the parents due to the way that they trainned the child there s another level and then it becomes the fault of the person in question.
all in all it depend on the gravity of the spoiltness. we cant just sit here and try to justify either
2007-01-30 21:00:54 · answer #7 · answered by sun 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is the parent's fault.
2007-02-02 16:01:37 · answer #8 · answered by stazi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋