is it because he knows what you want and is so smooth with his words? is it because he can make you feel so safe comfortable around him? is it the sense that you get when you are close to him?? Why ladies, why?? Are you scared to share an interest with man who can connect with you on another level? Is it knowing that he will probably give some the best sex you had in yo life?? What is it women I need to know??
2007-01-30 19:06:22 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1- not scared
2- prefer not to get cheated on
3- prefer even more not to get an std
that is why real women don't date "players"
2007-01-30 19:10:08 · answer #1 · answered by thigh_high_fishnets 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Player is already a big word that tells everyone what type of person he is.. Player that take life as a game. They are usually not serious about anything except smooth talks, pretty *** and sex.
Women like us are not afraid of players. But are merely afraid of being played. What women really want in life is commitment. If a player can't give that to a woman why should we even bother to go out with a player.
I understand that a player might give us the best sex of our life or maybe connect us to different level. However that alone is not enough for a woman.
What we want is commitment.!!!
2007-01-31 03:15:43 · answer #2 · answered by -K3llY- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Duh...everything you said is why! Because you playing to be something you are not...you playing like you care for her, you playing w/your smooth words, you playing w/their emotions...by tryin to get close to someone only to turn around n find out you aren't the only one who is being played...right!? Playa!
Although sometimes you may not be able to tell....women don't just want some of the best sex ever...it's so over rated. Good sex is just that and nothing more....we want more than that ya know!?
2007-01-31 03:14:06 · answer #3 · answered by tr95 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women dont want a player. It dont matter how good the sex is
if your man is a playa.
also We dont like playas because You could be playing with another woman
or it could be another
man.
If you want a real woman Take off the player hat.
2007-01-31 03:12:01 · answer #4 · answered by nickname 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It not we are scared we just tred of been played. by the player we like going to that level. but some times you mens level are not the same as our. yes we like to have the best sex of our life. but when we have we like to keep it to our self. no shareing . so if your a player that mean your playing some one. or two who know. some woman don't what that. and belive me there women that are just as much as a player as men. so there how I fell about the hole thing. been played not scared just not going down that road again.
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2007-01-31 03:20:55 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's because we're afraid you'll hurt us. Use us for sex and then you're gone. We don't want that. Usually what women want is a guy that'll stick around and care about us, players don't do that... There are some girls out there that are just looking for sex as well, so maybe you should find yourself one of those?
2007-01-31 03:11:15 · answer #6 · answered by yogastar02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women stay away from players because they are mostly man-ho's who come bearing smooth words and STDs.
Women are usually more interested in long-term meaningful committed relationships than a fling and we're smart enough to know we're more likely to get crabs than commitment from someone like you.
2007-01-31 03:11:39 · answer #7 · answered by Hamlette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually I think it's a treat, and breaks the boredom! Gives me someone to mess with! You know exactly what they want, and it's great to let them get all excited, just to walk away at the end! BUT, these dude's usually go for the lower class girls, the ones who don't even know their heads from their butt!! Half of these gals haven't even gotten off their BACKS YET!! Poor things!!!!!
2007-01-31 03:33:10 · answer #8 · answered by sue d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beacause Players let you get attached to them, they let you develope a connection with them, yes they are all that you mention, but they leave you because they are players, they just totally go and break your heart, not caring anymore, they create this bond and then break it like it means nothing
2007-01-31 03:11:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because many women are scared of getting played and hurt and the game the player plays.
2007-01-31 03:09:22 · answer #10 · answered by sweetgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't front like you are a player. True players never admit that they are players son!!!! That's the first rule. Don't give players a bad name by posting stupid questions like this you hear!!!!
2007-01-31 03:13:19 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋