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some of her friends told her that i said things that could dishonour her...but i never said them..i love her very much ..please answer it..i need her back to my life...you have to know that she's very stubborn and she won't admit that she loves me..and her family is against me now..she admitted that she doesn't want to come back..please help me get her back with your answers...

2007-01-30 18:50:28 · 11 answers · asked by gothica 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Women forgive but do not forget. Takes alot of assurance to build her trust back. If she does not want to see you, write her an email and give her the facts, nothing but the facts. No bitching about what her friends are and did for she might be offended you are putting her friends down.
How much you want her back would be very much the same amount of effort spent in pursuing her again from day one you get to know her and how she was impressed by you.

2007-01-30 19:03:19 · answer #1 · answered by Doida 1 · 0 0

The only thing you can do is talk to her and reassure her that you would never say things behind her back that would hurt her in any way, shape or form. Hopefully you have a pretty good track record in the truth department with her so remind her that you never felt the need to lie before so, why would you start now. If she loves you, she needs to listen to YOU, not her friends. The rest is up to her. She has to choose for herself if she wants to believe you or not. If she chooses to keep listening to her friends, you've either given her a real reason not to trust you or she's looking for an excuse to break up. Anyone that has been lied to will usually listen to reason after the anger wears off. If she's being unreasonable and won't let you explain anything, you just have to move on or risk looking a little psycho if you keep pressing the issue.

2007-01-30 18:58:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Giving her some time is a good idea. Think out what you need to talk to her about and after maybe a week or something call her and try your hardest to look and sound good. Handle yourself and don't show her you are "impatient" or any other negatives either! Try talking to her and defending yourself and take it how it comes.

Unfortunately if she is saying she doesn't want to be w/u then it could be deeper than just this BS.

If she doesn't listen and takes the next person's word over yours then maybe she isn't the girl for you! If I was in your shoes and I did all I could to at least "try" and she (or he in my case) isn't for me! That's just my opinion. Sometimes you get to know people and they could have characteristics you aren't interested in. When I am tellin the truth and my boyfriend thinks I am lying...that is super hurtful to me! It has happened to me...it was his loss! It was his own insecurities consuming him!

I am not sure your history with this gal but you may have a couple in your life before you find Mrs. Right!

Best Wishes!

2007-01-30 19:03:49 · answer #3 · answered by tr95 2 · 0 0

i don't think of it incredibly is the age element that incredibly bothers her now, it incredibly is the reality which you lied to her and approximately something form of ridiculous. in case you are able to lie approximately that she is in all threat thinking what else will he lie approximately? One lie can wreck all have faith in a relationship and it takes so long to construct that have faith back up yet i for my section do not think of you are able to ever completely get each and all of the have faith back. My advice may be to have a communication together with her approximately it and tell her the form you sense and why you lied and spot what she says approximately it and are available to an contract and then see if she needs to grant this relationship yet another shot. do not combat merely talk stay calm and answer inquiries to one yet another surely. not saying the controversy would possibly not get a dash heated yet do not scream at one yet another it merely makes each little thing worse. sturdy success and if she incredibly loves you she will decide to artwork this out she merely may be skeptical on the beginning up. She will additionally could forgive you for it or she could throw it back on your face sooner or later.

2016-10-16 08:44:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Since you are whipped over her, go and fall to her feet on your knees and beg her to take you back and tell her how miserable your life is without her. Is this what you want us to tell you???

Here is a more mature solution. You dont wanna have a relationship where you are always having to justify yourslelf coz yo partner does not have faith in you. Go and give her a last word. tell her , the people lied to her and she must choose who to trust and believe, if she maintains her stance, you are better off without her. her friends probably lied coz they want you for themselves so after she refuses to get back with you, you might as well shag one of them

2007-01-30 19:03:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Let her have time... So she can clear things up in her head. It takes a women alot to forgive even if they werent true she needs the time to relize that her friends lied. Remember if its ment to be all will work out! Good luck!!!

2007-01-30 18:54:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You should let her know the facts. Don't expect that this will get her back, but you do deserve a chance to have your say. Given the situation, you'll probably have to write her a letter.

2007-01-30 18:54:37 · answer #7 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 0 0

Talk to the friends, show them how you feel, and how they may have misunderstood, if they are really her friends when they realise how cut - up you are and how wrong they were, you can appeal to them to tell her the truth, and if not - have a mutual friend of both her and yours overhear you so that they can tell her "anonymously".

2007-01-30 18:56:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Why would you even want someone who doesnt believe you? She has no faith in you at all. Youre better off without her. I know thats not what you want to hear and Im sorry.

2007-01-30 18:54:48 · answer #9 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0 0

nothing says 'I love you' like good old fashioned stalking

2007-01-30 18:54:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

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