why do girls refuse to out with the guy the love and after they cry why r girls so so so complicated.
she in love with me and she so shy when i went to ask her out
she rejected me it the second time she does and i'm very sure
she in love with me. but she so complicated everytime i get close to her and look in her eyes she was about to cry and u she need bad but why she so complicated> should i give up? .i love her but she confused me and we r in college now she want t to leave the to anther. can girls answer me why do girls run away from someone they love and why do they refuse the guy they love.
thax to everyone
2007-01-30 18:27:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe she doesn't want to ruin your existing relationship.
Whatever it is, just be sure (if you truly love her) to do what's right for HER, not for yourself.
If you feel strongly enough about her, ask her to come clean about why she doesn't take the next step and be nice, not accusing. Remember that you might not like the answer, but it might give you closure.
If she continues to stonewall you then there is obviously something that she is not comfortable sharing and you will have to find a way to come to terms with her decision.
It sucks. We've all been there. Love can put you on top of the world, or love can make you feel like digging yourself a nice dark pit where you suffer. It happens to all of us, and although you may not ever be happy with the results, you will with time be able to come to terms with it.
2007-01-30 18:38:34 · answer #1 · answered by CJP 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hhhmmm......this is complicating cuz it's all sort of unclear. As for a vague idea or thought as to why women run from something they love it could be for many reasons. One reason is of fear. Maybe she fears that it won't work out and therefore she runs from you. Maybe there is something she isn't tellin you....that's why you are so confused by her actions. Some people are emotional and tears don't show love all the time...it could be many things.
Maybe you should give her space and feel out the situation a lil more. Sounds like y'all need to talk! Communication is the key. Start asking her questions and getting some answers.
Best Wishes w/this!
2007-01-30 18:34:56 · answer #2 · answered by tr95 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have yet to go out with her, why do you think she loves you? I have never been in love with someone and not dated them. Well I have never been in love with someone that I wasn't with either. I did end an engagement when I realized I loved the guy as a best friend, but not as a husband should be loved, because he deserved better than that.
2007-01-30 18:31:16 · answer #3 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm confused by your grammer. no offense.
she turned you down 2 times, and yet you say she loves you.
you say she is shy and crys. Maybe she doesn't want to hurt your feelings. AND say NO-- I want to be with another.
It sounds like you are crazy in love with her and think she should feel the same way about you.
It sounds like you are imposing your feelings about her onto her, and assuming she is in love with you.
Girls aren't shy or cry or say NO to guys they like, or love or want to be around. If you truly love her, let her leave.
If you love someone, let them go.
If they come back to you they are yours,
If not, it was never meant to be.
You cannot force someone to love you just because you have feelings for them.
Please let her go, wish her well, happiness and good life!
I'm sure she wishes the same for you, and hope you will find someone who can love you the way you want to be loved, and deserve to be loved.
love and marriage takes communication.
if she cannot talk, and only crys, and says she wants another, it's time to give up.
you will find someone!
it's your destiny!!
2007-01-30 18:44:48 · answer #4 · answered by Lilly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually sometimes girls are runaway from their heart.. if she acted like that maybe she's still not sure with her heart.. (are you the correct guy, is she really the best person for you, is she good enough for this relationship, some kind like that) girls are complicated just because they usually also think about others, not only about herself but also about you, about your friend, about your parents, about her parents. that's why.. so when she get confused like now.. just make her sure that you will br there for her.. good luck!!
2007-01-30 18:47:20 · answer #5 · answered by atied p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you ever think that maybe she doesn't love you. How long have you known this girl? Maybe she had her heart broken and she isn't over it yet. The only way you will know why, is if you ask her yourself.
2007-01-30 18:32:34 · answer #6 · answered by loza500 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's not complicated at all. You are simply ASSuming that she loves you and Wants to go out with you when it is PAINFULLY obvious that you are DEAD WRONG. She refuses because she doesn't WANT to go out with you. She gets a choice as to whom she goes out with and it isn't YOU.Get over yourself and deflate that ego of your's a bit it's not at all attractive.(which is probably WHY she won't go out with you.)
2007-01-30 18:33:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say you were from India or a country near there. It sounds from how you wrote your question that you are. Maybe it is something to do with her parents. Maybe she has been promised to someone else. Maybe she is just plain scared. Maybe she doesn't trust herself with you. There could be many reasons, I would have to know her to know myself.
2007-01-30 18:33:42 · answer #8 · answered by Fruit Cake Lady 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she wants to leave to another college or another guy? that's not clear in your details. why does a woman run away from a guy she loves....why does she cry to look in his eyes.... Why does YOUR girl do that...i dont know perhaps you arent giving her a reason to 'run to you'. ??
2016-03-28 21:54:56 · answer #9 · answered by Gail 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋