last night I called a girl that I know fairly well and we have kicked it a few times, I like her alot but I'm not sure how she feels. We work together part time (4-8 hours a week at the most) so I do not want to make things awkward. But I asked her if she wanted to go see a move later that night and her response was no because she seen one the night before. Is that a bs leave me alone response or am I missing something? Any Ideas on how to proceed?
thanks alot
2007-01-30 18:26:47 · 12 answers · asked by kennydawgg 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If a guy I REALLY LIKED asked me to a movie and I didn't really want to see one cuz I'd just gone the night before, I would simply say, "No, I don't really feel like going to the movies again tonight, but I'm up something else if you still want to hang out?" Now.... If I DIDN'T like him, I'd say, "I just went to the movies." and leave it at that with no additional suggestions or explanations...Good Luck baby...
2007-01-30 18:34:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that's a leave me alone thing cause any girl would love to go see a movie anytime. she maybe has a boyfriend and not tellin u and tryin to be nice about it
2007-01-31 02:39:49 · answer #2 · answered by kita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
Well, its a hard question to answer.
You will have to let us all know how it turns out.
She may just not be interested in you - she may already have a boyfriend.
Why dont you just open up to her and tell her that you would like to take her out - ask her where she would like to go
2007-01-31 02:38:50 · answer #3 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe dinner would be better. Pick some place nice and quiet have roses on the table etc. just be patient
2007-01-31 02:30:30 · answer #4 · answered by LSD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may genuinely have meant that she already saw it. It sounds like your in the 'just a friend' territory and she has no .. or little idea that your interested in her. Just let her know
2007-01-31 02:31:37 · answer #5 · answered by bickeo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah if she liked you she would have been all for it. I'm sorry.. just try and be friends with her, but you should probably leave it alone. She doesnt sound too keen.
2007-01-31 02:31:06 · answer #6 · answered by danielle_k9 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel and ask her how she feels. She might think that it is awkward to date a guy she works with.
2007-01-31 02:32:56 · answer #7 · answered by sasy_tabby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
usuallly it mattters on different things,
she rellly just mite not have wnated to see a movie, i think you should ask her to do soemthign else like lunch or soemthing, and if she says no
you know it means no
goodl luck
2007-01-31 02:32:33 · answer #8 · answered by buddah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Har to say, it could be either. I would test the water again, and if she turns you down then I'd say she isn't interested.
2007-01-31 02:30:45 · answer #9 · answered by loza500 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm that's a tough one! Ask her out again and if she says no again. Move on!
2007-01-31 02:32:06 · answer #10 · answered by Jo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋