How should I behave with a person whom I like very much but she doesn’t know me very well? She feels very insecure to talk with me or chat because I am stranger for her. I tried to remove her hesitation and tried to prove that I am not doing any fun. I am true from my side. Sometime she gives indication that she is interested. But never say directly, it’s her nature. I wanted to meet her, but whenever I made any plan some accidents happened to me and I could meet her till now. For the time being I need her responses. Her words. I send mails to her and even she added me in yahoo messenger but never chat with me. If anything wants to say she will put it in her status messages.
What to do with this girl, I can understand her problem but how to solve the problem??
2007-01-30 18:10:46 · 13 answers · asked by lsa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im a girl and i couldnt even understand her.
i guess u just have to give it time. be friends with her, get to know her better.
or maybe... she's just not that into you.
2007-01-30 18:18:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just act so normally with her that she forgets that she is feeling like a stranger.andd dont see heer from a lovers point of view but as a human being first.
2007-01-31 12:17:08 · answer #2 · answered by golaicecream 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
back off her a bit. give her some room to breathe. she wont want to get to know you if you are crowding her. give her a chance to get to know you and you to know her. try emailing her more before actually meeting her. ask her about herself and in return tell her things about yourself. you must learn to walk before you can run with her. try becoming friends first and working your way up. she wont admit her feelings to you until she can trust you, until she knows you.
2007-01-31 02:20:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi friend,DONT WORRY.I THINK SHE MIGHT TOO LOVE YOU,BUT DUE TO SOME PROBLEM SHE IS NOT RESPONDING YOU.WAIT TILL SHE RESPONDS YOU. AND DONT LOSE YOUR HOPE.IF TIME COMES MEANS EVERYTHING WILL BECOME GOOD.all the best for your love.
2007-01-31 05:20:17 · answer #4 · answered by Divya K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying so hard. It is not attractive.
Just be nice. Stick to your commitments when you say you'll meet her.
2007-01-31 02:14:31 · answer #5 · answered by D V 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone. Give her time to gauge her own feelings.
2007-02-03 01:42:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm... tell her little things about yourself, little by little, until she hopefully gets to know you. reassure her that she's ok if she looks tense... if anything else, talk to her. be patient and kind, in a loving way.
2007-01-31 02:21:14 · answer #7 · answered by music_lover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get naked and let her know its okay, maybe she will get naked with you. Once you have shared your nakedness with her then she shoudnt have any insecurities because you have showed her everything
2007-01-31 02:16:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just talk to her. get to being a good freind of hers. she will speak up someday on what she feels about u.
2007-01-31 13:59:51 · answer #9 · answered by manoo_26577 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her nicely be patiant and calm tell her as many times that u love her.
2007-01-31 02:20:19 · answer #10 · answered by Nisha Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋