his behavor.
2007-01-30 18:07:21 · 12 answers · asked by socrat 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
We get our kids to stop doing things when we learn where they got it from.....Our kids don't just pick this stuff up he has learned it from some one...start there then work on your child....teach him the difference between inside voice and out side voice that how I worked with my 5 year old and it does help......God Bless and Good Luck...
2007-01-30 23:47:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be consistent in the time outs. Don't cave in. After the time out, he has cooled down & so have you and you can explain the reason he was put in the time out. Also like some have mentioned, take away some toys & privileges and by doing that explain again why you did that and what is expected of him to earn the privileges back. You got to be consistent & yes it takes time but in the long run he will respect you. The most loving thing a parent can do is discipline & be consistent. Tell him also it's bc you love him & that is why he is being disciplined or put on time out.
2007-01-31 03:06:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to teach your son that shouting and arguing with you is not acceptable behavior. Everytime he does that, you should have him do a time-out and if you want, take away some privileges like tv or toys. He will quickly learn that once he starts to act disruptive, he will get a punishment. It's very important after every timeout and episode, you explain to him in a gentle but firm manner that that behavior will not be acceptable in the household.
2007-01-31 02:18:42 · answer #3 · answered by mycloud 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried to have his hearing tested. The shouting, and talking loudly. Could be the reasoning for his behavior. It could be giving him headaches. I would talk with the doctor and see if there is something wrong with his ears. And if there isn't, then I would talk to a psychologist
2007-01-31 07:23:05 · answer #4 · answered by M C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 5 it is very normal for him to push your buttons to see what you'll do just be consistent on how you punish him for this behavior it doesn't end at 5 either this continues on through about 9 but keep your head up because there is worse and better to come
2007-01-31 02:29:44 · answer #5 · answered by katydidit81 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should go and get his hearing checked first to rule it out. My daughter started shouting/talking loudly and it turned out she had suffered temporary hearing loss from a bad ear infection.
If its not his hearing then you need to sit him down and explain he cant talk to you like that, he needs to respect you as you are his mother. Then if he continues, put him on time out till he figures out its unacceptable to speak to people like that.
2007-01-31 05:55:21 · answer #6 · answered by Monkey Magic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have some more "bonding" and "talk" time. Know his interest and his world and be interested not just hearing it. His likes and dislikes. Share your feelings and thoughts with him.
Have your space and take your time out when he won't. I bet he'll be getting more agitated but have him respect you and your rules so that you can attend to his needs more.
2007-01-31 02:16:12 · answer #7 · answered by Mitchiko 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is called discipline. Apply consistently and liberally.
2007-01-31 02:12:38 · answer #8 · answered by justbeingher 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i think if this just started all of a sudden then maybe (if he's in school) he might have seen another kid do it. you can ask his teacher if he does it in class too??? just a thought :)
2007-01-31 02:47:22 · answer #9 · answered by Mel B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he might be developing a hearing problem
2007-01-31 02:20:02 · answer #10 · answered by BajaRick 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋