2007-01-30 18:02:28 · 25 answers · asked by Caloy C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you've ever seen Star Wars, this quote should mean something to you. When Luke is doubting his ability to become a Jedi, he says, "I don't believe it." Yoda replies, "That is why you fail." In all likelihood, you're probably not ugly--you just say that as a general assessment of how you feel about yourself. Probably you've been surrounded by family or friends that don't encourage you, so you are overly sensitive to any kind of failure. I highly doubt you've truly failed that often. The only way you fail is if you do not learn from your mistakes. Get some counseling, it may help.
2007-01-30 18:24:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ugliness definatly can play a role in successfulness, but so can confidence. Confidence and a firm understanding of how to get the job done and a strong commitment in getting the job done will go much further then a pretty smile. So put on your best clothes and do you hair and make up (since dressing for success isn't just a myth) but dont expect to work the world with out a little know how and a little self esteem and a little drive.
2007-01-31 02:09:38 · answer #2 · answered by stacy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are saying failing in dating, looks can make a difference. BUT, looks is not something judge by you alone. It takes two to tango.
A good looks gives good first impression. To have a good and long lasting relationship, the personality and character compatibility is the one that do the trick.
If you are keep having break ups and failed relationships, I think you may be finding wrong people.
Some of the women I attracted to are not pretty at all. It is just that personality and their charisma that draws me into them.
In short, don't blame everything on the looks. Look is just one part of the equation but not all.
2007-01-31 02:14:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's the end of your question that has something to do with it. There are ALOT of people out there who may not be the most beautiful, but they are the most successful. It's more of a mindset, if you think that you are fabulous, that you are happy with who you are.. then you're more likely to succeed. It's pretty much all about confidence, in you knowing what your abilities are and using them to your advantage. Know what you want, go out there and get it. And if you dont get it right the first time? So what? Just keep trying, it doesnt hurt. Good luck with things.
2007-01-31 02:12:54 · answer #4 · answered by Cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At this point of time, you'd feel like you are the only one who has been unlucky. Almost everyone here has either been rejected or dumped. Like they say, beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder. The one person who truly loves you, will find you the most beautiful person on this planet. And be thankful that you didn't hook up with the people who thought you were ugly. It was just the ugliness of their character shining through. May the force be with you.
2007-01-31 02:11:45 · answer #5 · answered by aparna_2oo4 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u re not ugly at all. beauty comes from the inside. take the ff: steps and u will be amazed at the result
1. feel good abt urself and things around u.
2. believe in urself
3. have good self esteem it is very vital for success in life.
4. believe strongly that when things don't work out the way u expect it is cos it is not meant to be.
5. do not brood over things, believe it is too small to halt u despite what, be cheerful and move on
2007-01-31 02:23:44 · answer #6 · answered by joddie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I can't see u but I have to ask this question. Why and who made you feel like u are ugly? You are only bringing yourself down the best thing to do is look in the mirror and pick out things that make you feel that way and try to change it. alittle make up wouldn't hurt and if you are over weight then you have to seriously thing about your health and want to go to the gym..and if you are failing in relationships maybe it's the dumb boy/girl..
2007-01-31 02:18:32 · answer #7 · answered by kita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks certainly have nothing to do with failure. Without a lot of clues here, I would have to say that you have low self esteem. Maybe you tackle too many things at once. Move onto one thing at a time. If you feel you are failing at relationships, maybe you need to look into how you have behaved in them. Perhaps you will find some clues to your behavior that can help you out the next time around.
2007-01-31 02:08:08 · answer #8 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Why do you keep failing is cause you have no self esteem and self respect . You need to be happy with who you are and screw what everyone else thinks..It doesn't matter . I am the same way I have no self respect and let people push me around and tell me I'm worthless.
You need to love yourself first ( not in the preverted way) And just try to be happy with how and who you are...When you gain self esteem you'll start to feel a lil better with yourself and thing will start going into place. Give it time.. If you need to chat please contact me.
2007-01-31 02:15:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Making the wrong decisions have nothing to do with being ugly and failing in life.
2007-01-31 02:09:08 · answer #10 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋