2007-01-30 17:08:33 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics & Government ➔ Law Enforcement & Police
My Son is a Police Officer in a very dangerous area of Calif. Each and ever day I say a prayer for him. I have ridden on what is called a ride-along and I really enjoyed seeing what Police Officer goes through on a daily basis. His pay is outstanding over $ 85 grand a year as he put in a lot of overtime. The bad things , He has been shot at 3 times , spit on, kicked, bitten, called ever name you could think of and yet he has never been seriously hurt. His marriage went bad not because of him on the force he and her really were not meant for each other. He has since remarried and has his two sons from the first marriage and and new son, He fulfilled my childhood dream I always wanted to be a Peace Officer but lost my eye in an accident. I'm very proud of my son BUT I admit I do wish he was doing something else but this is what makes him happy but I worry daily. The very BEST to you my friend whom I feel his also an officer of the Law. God Bless and Respect
2007-01-30 17:20:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it is a major decision ...just as other professions are as well..like stunt doubles for instance..they lead a vicarious life too. BUt when you stop and think about it today, you can die from just about anything besides the call of duty. I was an ER nurse for example, for many years, and I took certain risks as well. Your career is very importnat part of the person that makes up YOU. I miss my career and i am going back into it. It was a very big piece of my life and i feel lost not being there now. So, having said all this, you keep the career, you have the kids cause that is life, and you take what comes your way. this is the way of the world. there are certain risks in everyday things as well. Like u might get hit by a bus on your way home from a 12 hour shift. who knows? right??? you live your life the way you see fit and those that are in your life either accept it or they move on. You have your wonderful brood of kids, they grow up knowing only that you, their parent, is the best cop and they are very proud of what you do. that is how life should be. peace and joy to you all.K
2007-01-31 01:19:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
On being a cop, safety is first and foremost, the most important part of the job, not only for yourself, but to those you are helping, while on the job.
As for having a family, and being a cop, the importance of staying safe and protecting your family is now a priority.
It's difficult enough to maintain that safety for yourself, but to have to now take it upon yourself to keep your family safe, is even greater.
You become more aware of your surroundings and therefore, you have eyes at the back of your head, and are always looking around, making sure there's nothing that would put your family in harm's way.
Just taking it day by day, ensuring that you're doing your job, as a cop, and trying to find balance, for family time, too.
2007-01-31 01:15:08 · answer #3 · answered by argamedius 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think cops are wonderful with their families. A long time ago when i was little i wanted to be a cop. Life is definitly different. Teach your family how to protect themselves. You never know when one of your former cases might want to get even. It does happen.
Also your always on call. Therefore time is of an essence. Make sure you have quality time and communication with your family. Also make sure that they know you love them. Police work is dangerous and you never know if today is the day your family gets bad news about you. Keep all this in mind.
2007-01-31 01:16:05 · answer #4 · answered by DOROTHY L L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why should being a cop be a reason to not have a family. Being an officer is a very respectable job, and having a family is natural. Go for it!
2007-01-31 01:17:53 · answer #5 · answered by Tammy 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There is no opinion. Either cops do have families or they don't.
But I wouldn't marry a cop because they cheat a lot (or so I've heard), and obviously because I would be worried about their safety all the time.
2007-01-31 01:12:27 · answer #6 · answered by sarcastro1976 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes a very special women to be married to a cop, divorce rates among cops are among the hardest. It is not the type of job you can leave at the "office".It should be discussed before hand and if they marry, it will take a lot of work to keep it.
2007-01-31 08:09:23 · answer #7 · answered by watchman_1900 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhhhhhhhhhhhh My opinion is that some cops have families of their own and all cops are members of a family... And that's all I have to say about that.
2007-01-31 02:20:57 · answer #8 · answered by scruffycat 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1. Don't bring your work home with you. Be a cop 8 (give or take) hours a day then be a husband, dad, member of a given group, R&R, sleep, etc. the other 16 hrs. a day. Leave the job AT the job and don't mull over it. 2.A lot of people are employed in police, or police like (security officers, prison guards/officers,etc) type work. They make a pretty fair living and there is definately a need for such positions in our society. Regardless of the position, or job tytle,keep in mind that the person is just doing his/her job and there is nothing wrong with that.
2007-01-31 03:16:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I grew up as the daughter of a cop. It was really okay. My dad never ever discussed his work at home. He was pretty strict. We lived in a small town and he always knew where we were. There were a few drawbacks, but mostly we were all proud of him.
My dad was shot one night. I was already grown and gone, but mom heard it on the scanner and was ready to go to the hospital when someone came to pick her up. He recovered.
2007-01-31 01:17:29 · answer #10 · answered by mamadixie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋