Could that be the reason why she no longer has signs of physical attraction or interest in me when we have sex now?
2007-01-30 17:04:05 · 26 answers · asked by Jamie B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You cheated on her, she caught you. Now she has to deal with getting over the pain you brought on. You two should get into counseling.
When an ex of mine cheated on me, I tried my best to forgive him and move on. He unfortunately was not willing to admit much in the way of blame (it all seemed to be her fault in his eyes). I lost all interest and respect for him. It was a battle I could not win alone. I headed to counseling, and he just complained about my feeling sad.
2007-01-30 17:07:45 · answer #1 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I seriously doubt that having sex with a man with a bigger penis would make her lose interest in you. I've been intimate with men of different sizes, and it really doesn't make much difference. What matters most is the man that the penis is attached to...if the entire man is a d**k then it's hard to be attracted to him, no matter how nice his package is.
I think this is a trust issue. You broke the promise to be intimate only with your wife, and she doesn't feel like she can trust you anymore. She's also wondering if you're looking at her and/or feeling her and comparing her to the other woman. Every time she does anything in bed, she's wondering if that other woman did it better. Basically, the ghost of that other woman is in your marriage bed and your wife is having a hard time being intimate because of it. You probably need marriage counseling if you're going to get over this.
2007-01-30 17:11:09 · answer #2 · answered by Judi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say but the cheater never wins and loses all around. I don't blame her for not having attraction or interest, let alone have sex with a spouse who cheated on her!
2007-01-30 17:11:54 · answer #3 · answered by kakolikapiha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't have any interest in my husband PERIOD if he cheated on me. You are lucky that she is still with you. I would give her her space, apologize to the ends of the earth, and never do that again.
You don't even know if she did anything back. She could still be innocent. Just make sure that you are completely devoted to her from now on, and maybe someday she'll trust you again.
2007-01-30 17:07:04 · answer #4 · answered by hopewriter 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She isn't showing any signs of physical attractions or interest because you cheated on her. No necessarily because she is cheating on you. Don't try to blame her for what you did to her.
2007-01-30 17:11:34 · answer #5 · answered by dnisey64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She most likely feels that way because one side of her hates you. Why would you cheat. Is she not good enough for you anymore. Why is she not enough for you. She will have sex with you only to prove herself wrong and play with the fire in her mind, but it will lead to fights. You got caught with your hand in the cookie jar and you have to suffer the consequences. You made your wife feel like a small piece of @#@!$#. Your an #$#@%!!!!!
2007-01-30 17:09:32 · answer #6 · answered by buttrcup1980 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You took her trust for granted and you cheated on her. And you are wondering why she has no interest in you? You are going to have to work real hard to get things back the way they were, if they ever go back. But, if you love her then you will do it. You know, I do not put as much emphasis as I should on religion in my life, but I do believe in God. And did you know that in the Bible it says "love your wife". You know why? Because if you love her the way you are supposed too, she will love you back! Chew on that for awhile.
2007-01-30 17:12:22 · answer #7 · answered by cleanmomma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it could be that she is worried considering all the sexually transmitted diseases like aids that is floating around. i think a good punishment for you would to be castrated. if you want to cheat on some one just leave them. i do not get people like you. either that or she has low self esteem so she has not left you yet. you probally crushed her heart. o my gosh i would love to come to your house and smash you over the head a couple hundered times but i am to lazy. serves you right
2007-01-30 17:08:30 · answer #8 · answered by wedjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think this was very faithful on your part. trust is something which plays an imp role in all relationships. it is valid on her part not to get interseted with you anylonger. i respect her feelings and feel she still has the decency to sleep with you, but i doubt if things can get any better now. plz go an apologise and admit ur mistake and make sure you win her confidence this time.
2007-01-30 17:14:05 · answer #9 · answered by blessed damozel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No she probably just realizes that there are other guys out there better than the one that cheated on her but she is just rolling with the flow right now so enjoy your time together. it will be over soon.
2007-01-30 17:07:51 · answer #10 · answered by Mary Kangaroohead 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋