Why is it not worth killing yourself over the loss of a loved one and I don't mean a death, i mean a breakup or rejection. How can one get over such a horrible crisis and why would one want to even consider trying to move on when you know that you have lost the most important person in your world. I honestly don't understand, what if your true love, your soulmate so to speak, leaves your life shattered and empty? Then, is life not worth living?
2007-01-30 16:32:02 · 7 answers · asked by quicksandhigh 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Always sems that way at first... but everything is how you perceive it....
you never know... in 2 seconds you might see something that makes you smile and makes you view evrything differently....
Killing one's self is not the answer...
someone will always love you...
specially God...
2007-01-30 17:34:31 · answer #1 · answered by CuriousityScaresMe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been there; I was already being treated for depression, and out of the blue I met the hottest girl friend I ever had. I wanted to marry her, but she dumped me because I didn't have a very good job. I thought I'd never get over it but I did. The experience pushed me to go back to school and finish my degree. Now I'm married; it's not as exciting as the relationship I had in the past, but it's more stable and life isn't great but it's pretty good. I saw my old girl friend again a couple of months ago (after 20 years) and we both have aged and gained weight--we didn't even recognize each other. I had fantasized about her for years, and now it's not a big deal; the thrill is gone, you might say. GIve it time--it may seem like the worst thing to break up but you'll eventually get over it. Break ups can make you a stronger person, I thnk. That soul mate stuff is BS, in my opinion.
2007-01-31 01:26:16 · answer #2 · answered by majnun99 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
because in time you will learn to live your life without this person, and in a bit more time, you will realize that you can have some pretty good times without that person, and in a bit more time, you start wondering what you loved so much about the person. And a bit later, youve fallen in love with another.
Gee I imagine what I would have missed in my life had I killed myself after my frist boyfriend the love of my life at the time dumped me for another girl. NOBODY is worth losing your life over. Your life is much more than one person.
2007-01-31 01:26:46 · answer #3 · answered by stripedbook 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
life is ALWAYS worth living. i hate to say it but EVERYONE looses a loved one at one time or another. you shouldn't live your life BECAUSE of someone you should live your life because of you! find other things to fill the void and soon you won't even notice it. maybe it'll always be in the back of your mind, but things always get better. killing yourself is a selfish act, specialy over a break up. think of your family and friends. why should ONE PERSON take you away from multiple people!?!?
2007-01-31 00:44:00 · answer #4 · answered by smile182 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is true,some persons are convinced that life cannot go on without another. This is so unfair to suffer so much grief,
when the one you love so much has gone on with their lives.
I am telling you that life is worth living, make new friends,
travel, find a hobby, read, relax, and enjoy yourself.
2007-01-31 00:50:19 · answer #5 · answered by Seeanna 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when you love you risk getting broken.why should you go on.
because your soul mate is out there,i think if you found your soul
mate you would still be together.isnt that what a soul mate is.
your true love is still out there.if you kill yourself you wont find that
love.now the person who left you,you will most likely love forever but
it will change.losing love can help us to find our true love.i still love
my first love and when we broke up i thought i was gonna die.the
next guy i was so mad at for so long.but i still love him its just different. now i truly love my husband,i believe he is my soul mate
keep going true love is worth it
2007-01-31 02:14:02 · answer #6 · answered by mentalzan2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
life is NOT worth living no matter what.
2007-01-31 01:09:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋