ok at first i was cool with it and after a while i forgot about it but now i want i need it. my gf is ok without cuz she has her toys she uses and she even uses them while im around. whats up with her? what should i do?
2007-01-30 16:29:27 · 16 answers · asked by spayhappy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
apparently her toys do a better job then you do.
2007-01-30 16:37:47 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it, but maybe she's just not interested anymore. You're not getting very serious responses here, so let me try and give you an adult perspective (from a 24yo with her own marital problems) Obviously, she's not anti-sex, otherwise she wouldn't have her toys. You need to talk to her and find out why she's not interested in sex with you anymore. Maybe she's doing this so you'll leave her and she won't have to be the bad guy. (sorry if that stings, but I've seen it done) Or, maybe she's just bored and she wants you to be more interesting. Either way, you definately have to talk to her about it, because 1. You deserve to know what's up, and 2. You don't want to hand around where you're no longer wanted.. Good luck!
2007-01-31 00:36:42 · answer #2 · answered by ... 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes when a lover becomes anti sexual is because of you. Ease up on pressuring her and making her feel like a piece of meat. Try taking her out to a nice dinner. Open doors for her. Pull out her seat. Rent a room at a semi nice hotel. Nothing outrageous like $1000. Have the room setup with a dozen roses waiting for her. And just take things slow. Ease up on pressuring her and try making her feel comfortable. Don't mention sex. Just take it all 1 step at a time. She may just want you to appreciate her.
2007-01-31 00:36:30 · answer #3 · answered by CharlieMurphy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you two not having sex? What happened? You can certainly talk to her about how you are feeling. It must be pretty frustrating, especially with her using toys while you are around. But without knowing what lead to it, I can only generically advise you to talk to her.
2007-01-31 00:33:04 · answer #4 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously suck if she is using a toy without you. Don't worry, my man sucks and I get it somewhere else also. Seems to be the trend, sorry for your luck.
2007-01-31 00:36:16 · answer #5 · answered by l'il mama 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You apparently don't satisfy her. Ask her to let you use the toys to make her satisfied; then when the water's hot, jump in.
2007-01-31 00:40:46 · answer #6 · answered by ann a 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
then play together. tell fantasies...have orals... it's just plain exciting seeing others going off in front of you. tell her how you feel and try something new.. sucking and kissing and being nude and touching are quite easy to do.
2007-01-31 00:56:38 · answer #7 · answered by genie l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's just not that into you anymore. Or she's sleeping with someone else. Or both.
2007-01-31 00:35:14 · answer #8 · answered by mypassions4life 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know what to do, go get aother girl for sexual purposes.
2007-01-31 01:31:29 · answer #9 · answered by WestCoastin4Life 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hide her toys--- wait a day--- then slap "it" on her forehead
(my b/f suggests)
2007-01-31 00:53:43 · answer #10 · answered by Louise 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋