Honest opinion needed. should i just give up?
i mean i really like him, last semester in school weve been talking a lot and i really like the way he thinks and what he does. he seems to be the one i could admire and be interested in. but ive been to shy, the day he asked me if i had a boyfren i told him i dont have one cause i dont like to have one when actually i want him, whenever i see him, i just smile, i dont have the courage to talk to him anymore now that ive realized he is something more, i just wish he would understand that it is only through text that i can be friendly, well he is not patient enough, and is not replying at times when i ask questions about philosophy,(his favorite subject) so im done with it,i would just erase his number and move on.
i know im really weird and really scared and i just want to hate him so i can forget him easily, i know he is not that in to me, and for me its all or nothing
2007-01-30 16:23:58 · 3 answers · asked by haringmarumo 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I quote: "the day he asked me if i had a boyfren i told him i dont have one cause i dont like to have one when actually i want him"
I'm not sure what you are saying. Did you tell him you don't want a boyfriend...or did you tell him that you wanted to be with HIM?
If you meant/said the first part, then you should be exactly where you want to be...I think. If you meant the second part, then you need to write it down and hand it to him.
Good luck, girl. In any case, I wouldn't make honeymoon plans on this one.
2007-01-30 16:34:58 · answer #1 · answered by muedprof 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heres this coming from a guys perspective. Guys are stupid. We don't know what you're going through. So tell him that you are nervous or maybe lightly hint that you may be interested. I know it may be hard for you to talk to him face to face, so text him and explain it to him. If he understands and continues talking to you, then you know to pursue him. If not, then you know to give up. Hopefully this coming from another stupid guy helped.
2007-01-31 00:36:50 · answer #2 · answered by Nathan G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you should at least ask him either way there is nothing to lose . You should go for it cause if you don't ask you will never know.Trust me I have been through this.
2007-01-31 00:30:58 · answer #3 · answered by blackglitter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋