Last night at a party I was too shy to approach this guy myself, cause I always think that he could've approached me too.. Even though I had an ''excuse'' to go to him and ask him that I've seen him before at a concert. We had eyecontact and smiled at eachother, but never actually talked to eachother, he seemed like a shy guy..
Anyway, I was too shy to go and have a talk with him! So I asked my friend if she maybe could arrange his phonenumber. She did this when I left the party.. Now I think it was so foolish of me that I didn't go and have a talk cause it really seems childish now and that I don't have any initiative.. So i feel really stupid now!
But she got me his phonenumber! When should I call him and what do I have to say!?
THanks!!
(sorry for my poor english)
2007-01-30 16:23:24 · 7 answers · asked by sugarfactory12 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ps. Should I ask him out? Or what!? I'm really confused, but i guess i have to see first where the conversation is going..
2007-01-30 16:37:22 · update #1
Just call him. Tell him that your friend got your number, and even admit how you feel kind of silly about that. You can even say that you thought you saw him at a concert and then felt like that sounded like a pick-up line. See where conversations go. But just go for it. Nothing is going to happen unless you just take a deep breath and give it a shot. You might be really glad you did.
2007-01-30 16:28:36 · answer #1 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you already have the number, what are you waiting for? Perhaps you may be afraid to call for fear of being tongue tied or maybe get rejected. You can start by texting and see where it goes.He's probably shy, so by texting he don't have to talk as well and it makes things easier for you both. If he ask how you got his number, just tell him you wanted to get to know him and you got it from someone. He'll be thrilled to hear you actually made the effort. Chances are, he will text you back, so good luck to you!!
2007-01-30 17:12:26 · answer #2 · answered by PhiloPhobic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 04:17:48 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say text him first if you cant then just call him and meet up and talk instead of talking over the phone. too impersonal for first conversations.
2007-01-30 16:28:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest! Hopefully he'll find it flattering and go ahead and pursue things with you but don't forget to get to know him first.
2007-01-30 16:30:57 · answer #5 · answered by anna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should call him before she does
2007-01-30 16:29:13 · answer #6 · answered by it_is_what_it_is 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dis is whay u say
" hey baby doll, wanna come over and have sex until u're tired of it? but b4 u come buy a condom, i'm waiting!!!"
LOL
2007-01-30 16:29:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋