i mean i really like him, last semester in school weve been talking a lot and i really like the way he thinks and what he does. he seems to be the one i could admire and be interested in. but ive been to shy, the day he asked me if i had a boyfren i told him i dont have one cause i dont like to have one when actually i want him, whenever i see him, i just smile, i dont have the courage to talk to him anymore now that ive realized he is something more, i just wish he would understand that it is only through text that i can be friendly, well he is not patient enough, and is not replying at times when i ask questions about philosophy,(his favorite subject) so im done with it,i would just erase his number and move on.
i know im really weird and really scared and i just want to hate him so i can forget him easily, i know he is not that in to me, and for me its all or nothing
2007-01-30 16:17:48 · 8 answers · asked by haringmarumo 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on...
2007-01-30 17:09:05 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, stay with him. I know he's probably thinking the same about you. As for philosophy "The smarter man [woman] is the quiet man [woman]". Look from how I see it you too really want to go out with each other, the fact that you don't have the courage is proof.
Can I tell you something else that is really important: When you are going to ask him do it in person, NO PHONES,NO E-MAIL/IM,NO FRIENDS! If you don't do it in person you'll show him your not sure about him which will make you seem less "date able". The worst that can happen is a two letter word and even if that happens he's your friend and you'll have another chance.
DO THIS BEFORE IT'S TOO LATE!
2007-01-31 00:28:45 · answer #2 · answered by A Friend You'll Never Know 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jesus. Are you guys serious???
You NEED to talk to him. You find someone that you like and enjoy talking to and being around and you want to find a way to hate him and sabotage any chance at a relationship before he even knows how you feel about him? Sounds like a cop out to me. Your letting fear of rejection control your life and you WILL lose out on some great opportunities that come along if you don't take control. My advice?? take an ef'fing chance.That's what makes life interesting. Not knowing whether that other person likes you and feels the same way and putting your feelings out there and allowing yourself to be vulnerable. Its exciting and it can turn out positively.
Its true, you may be dissapointed but at least you'll know and not be wondering months or even years down the road if they felt the same way.
Take a chance on love and eventually you will be rewarded.
That's my philosophy. If you don't try, you will never succeed.
2007-01-31 00:32:18 · answer #3 · answered by speedrazor11 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hiii...
dont give up =)... are u really truly sure he's not into you?? maybe, just like you, he is also shy about expressing himself and just doesnt have the right words to use when he wants to tell you. i mean, when he asked if you had a boyfriend, you told him yourself you dont and you dont want one when you truly wanted him but he could've seen in as an "no, sorry im not interested" sorta answer you know?
have patience with him. sometimes people take a while opening up.. who knows, he might just like you but he's thinking EXACTLY what you're thinking about him and doesnt know if you like HIM or not... keep it up please =).. you never know what might come from it. if you really really like him dont give up!! it might be an perfect opportunity that you passed and wont ever get back.
even if you think you're not getting anywhere.. keep at it. dont sound desperate or anything, but stay friendly and sincere, get to know him.. even if you don end up together, he could end up being a close friend of yours. if things dont turn out the way you want, then move on, but know that you didnt give up and that you know you gave yourself a chance because if you just drop everything and run, you'll never know what you could have and you might end up regretting it.
=]
2007-01-31 00:27:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's plenty more fishes in the sea! c'mon if he doesn't want to talk forget it and move on. Let him chase you while you enjoy life to the fullest. Remain friends however but don't waste time!
2007-01-31 00:27:03 · answer #5 · answered by anna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start out as friends and see where it goes. Take your time and get to know him. You may realize later you don't like him as much as you thought, but you'll have gained more insight for future situations you'll find yourself in.
2007-01-31 00:21:55 · answer #6 · answered by kakolikapiha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he thinks you weren't interested in him because you said that about boyfriends. you should make it evident that you are interested, even if it means not being shy for about 5 minutes and just putting it out there. if you want him that bad, you're gonna have to
2007-01-31 00:23:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
why women think guys have crystal balls... lol
2007-01-31 00:26:01 · answer #8 · answered by almost there 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋