but when we finally do it. he acts like a ... so should i just end it with him. im tired of feeling used afterwards. when we have a problem he wont half talk to me if we had sex. but if we didnt have sex for a while and have a problem, he tries and talk things out. he still dont change but he does talk it out. he denies even acting like this. he wont change and ive just closed up my heart cuz of it. he talks a sweet talk to get what he wants and then once he has it he goes back to the dont care attitude. if i should leave him how do i do this without losing my mind. im addicted to the relationship and im scared of moving on but this guy is healthy for my mind and soul. as a matter of fact im going to the health food store to get some herbs to calm me down from the stress. what do you think?
2007-01-30 16:13:53 · 15 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If it always seems like a pattern and you think somethings up with it stick to your gut feeling or try to talk to him about it if he doesnt want to talk about it or gives you some bs excuse but i dont really know are there other problems besides just this? Im gonna guess theyre prob is? If you even had to write to other people to ask if you should stay with him chances are your not happy and can be happier in a healthy relationship? If hes not treating you the way you want to be treated I say ditch him. I know its comfortable to keep someone around bc you think things will change or your just used to them but it will be alot harder and a bigger waste of time down the road. good luck
2007-01-30 16:24:33 · answer #1 · answered by 13aby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter what if you feel used at all after sex--well--you definitely are being used. There is no reason why you should feel any different if that is really the case. Try breaking up with this loser and finding someone you connect more with rather than in the bedroom.
2007-01-31 00:19:34 · answer #2 · answered by l'il mama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's causing you that much stress and sadness it's not worth it. Can you live your life being in a relationship like that? It may be hard at first, but you will get over it and meet someone else who will make you forget about him.
2007-01-31 00:17:59 · answer #3 · answered by mypassions4life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its obvious he is using you just for sex probably he even has sex with other girls....i think you should just break up with him i know its gonna hurt but it takes time to get over it..not your whole life your gonna be loving him and missing him maybe l8ter if your still with him you'll get your feeling hurt more than what your gonna feel when you leave him... good luck and i hope da best for you ----->do the right thing
2007-01-31 00:24:23 · answer #4 · answered by ♥cRazY♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
agree totally...find someone else. Life is too short for that roller coaster ride. Next time wait before becoming intimate until you feel more sure about his motivation to be nice.
2007-01-31 00:18:05 · answer #5 · answered by Sparky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what it sounds like is that he's just using you for sex. I know you care about him a lot that's why you don't see through his lies. You seriously need to think this relationship through
2007-01-31 00:20:28 · answer #6 · answered by lover4ne1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not sure how old he is, but he seems like a typical teenager..I'd leave him be..you should never feel used after having sex with someone you love. It seems like a real unhealthy relationship.
2007-01-31 00:18:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're way to young to be a mother to this child.
If he is not getting the message, leave him one on the table.
2007-01-31 00:18:37 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Sounds unhealthy for you. Plus you're better than that, he should value you for who you are, not for the physical relationship.
2007-01-31 00:19:49 · answer #9 · answered by Nai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop him, he only wants puss. i hate to sound so blunt and gross, but that's what it is. drop him now and spare yourself the hurt.
he's nice cuz he can't get any. he prolly will end up hurtin you in the long run, so hold your head up and break it off. there better guys out there.
2007-01-31 00:18:17 · answer #10 · answered by robyoung3484 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋