the first time i had sex with a guy, he was not a virgin but i was. before we had sex he knew i was a virgin. however, the first time we had sex it happened naturally and he did not talk that much or ask me if i was alright but he came back to lay with me when we were done. the second time he was constantly asking me if i was alright and even said "you said you were a virgin right" even though he remembered what happened the other night. he treated the second time like my first time and he even said tell me when it hurts and when you want me to stop
2007-01-30 15:02:39 · 12 answers · asked by lindsay m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like he's a good guy to be so patient and caring.
Good Luck!
'-)
2007-01-30 15:07:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds extremely weird because he would be asking all these questions when it happened the first time because you didn't know what to expect and it was your first time!! This guy is really weird and to me I don't think that he cares for you that much if he can't even remember that you were a virgin or not!! Just be careful and smart about this because if he did care then he would of been gentle, asking you questions and seeing if you were allright for the first time!!
2007-01-30 23:07:45 · answer #2 · answered by pqr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he was just to "In Lust" to stop and care the first time. He's being a good and caring guy now, and that's what counts. I hope he's just as considerate all the other times your together too. I would talk to him though about the first time. See what he has to say.
2007-01-30 23:11:35 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be straightforward and ask him; that really is the best way to go since you don't have to deal with the doubts and misinterpretations that can lead to big trouble.
On the other hand, he might have just been too excited to have sex with you to have remembered to be considerate and tried to make up for it.
Ask him and tell him how it made you feel.
2007-01-30 23:11:15 · answer #4 · answered by ADE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...weird...ok....uhmm...I remember the first time I had sex right..I was kind of..like omg omg am i really doing it I can't believe it's happening..Maybe he is lying to you, guys lie all the time say they arn't virgins..Maybe he was a virgin, ever thought about that? Just a possibility..Maybe the first time he was shocked just as much as you..Second time more loose, ya know..
2007-01-30 23:07:49 · answer #5 · answered by pokeralchemist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was it possible that he was drunk or on drugs the first time and maybe he doesn't remember it?
2007-01-30 23:07:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps he was drunk the first time and didnt remember the sex at all.
2007-01-30 23:07:18 · answer #7 · answered by masku darling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really, really bad, especially if you're too young and it happened outside of marriage!
2007-01-30 23:10:30 · answer #8 · answered by kakolikapiha 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he's being concerned.
i have a feeling it's a compliment because it seems like he was being satisfied.
2007-01-30 23:11:20 · answer #9 · answered by SHANNON. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it happens because you arent very smart
2007-01-30 23:12:38 · answer #10 · answered by useful idiot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋