My 18 year old son comes home today and insist on telling me about his sex life. He decided that he wants to make this a contest. A contest that he can not win. What is it with kids today.
2007-01-30 14:38:09 · 33 answers · asked by always wondering 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Pfftttt ... they do it once or twice, missionary style, and all of a sudden their experts.
2007-01-30 14:42:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why cant he win ,were you so hot in your time???
my mother found out that i lied about my sex life ,so i promised to tell the truth ,after a few weeks she was in tears and begged me to start lying again, so i can imagine your predicament,
and i was a kid 50 years ago ,
the kids in the 20ties and 30ties were also very wild
so rest asured it is not only the kids of today
they have always been at it ,
you must have been as well ,judging by your statement that he would loose the contest.
tell him it is boring to hear about it ,and that gentlemen should keep these things to them selves.
you are lucky if this is the extent of your son problems.
2007-01-30 14:48:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I see this as you two sharing some laughs at our expense!
I'm game, I'll jump in.
Disregard the comments about parenting skills. Please. he is talking to you and he is home. Well done mom!
You can't stop an 18 year old from having sex. Once you start, you can't go back. What's done is done.
You and I both know he can't win this bet. He has yet to learn how to do it correctly!
We have had years of practice and have a level of sexual maturity that he can only dream about.
sorry charlie... you lose. I'm going with your parents.
2007-01-30 16:07:41 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He doesn't know what he's talking about, and he will regret it someday. Tell him he needs to grow up if he's trying to compete with his parents' sex life...that you do that because you love each other, not because you want to look good. He's still trying to get himself under control; but after a wife and kids, he'll realize what it's all about. Hang in there for now!
;)
2007-01-30 14:48:48 · answer #4 · answered by mtngrl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be hard for me to be proud of my son if he did this.
What is it with kids today? They haven't figured out that they are at risk for getting something that a shot won't cure.
If I had a girl I was nuts about tell me she had warts, do you think I would have sex with her? How about herpes? AIDS? What a turn-off.
Tell your son if he is going to be promiscuous that he better wear a rain coat.
2007-01-30 14:43:44 · answer #5 · answered by P W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your son that sex without love is nothing. Sex with true love is the most beautiful thing in the world.
2007-01-30 14:42:37 · answer #6 · answered by Mike B 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This sounds a little sick to me, let me get this straight your 18 year old son wants to have a competition about his sex life with you???? How does he know what your sex life consist of??? To weird, I wouldn't tell any of my friends about this and I would most definitely not compete with my child over sex !!! That is disgusting !!! Legal age or not it's inappropriate.
2007-01-30 14:43:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
a contest with you?
and i don't think he should be having sex at 18 anyway, not unless he is married, which i doubt, being it that he lives with u and is only 18!
2007-01-30 14:42:48 · answer #8 · answered by England France 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You guys must have a very close relationship. Don't blow it. He obviously trusts you. You did a good job with him. Just ask him a lot of questions. He'll paint himself into a corner. Then take the lead.
2007-01-30 14:43:55 · answer #9 · answered by Debi in LA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut off any financial assistance if you're still supplying it to him & LAY down some laws on conduct & personal behavior. Hopefully it's not too late for him to learn AND maybe just maybe he'll realize one day that maybe he didn't know everything back then.
2007-01-30 14:44:37 · answer #10 · answered by infidel-louie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bad parenting is what is with kids today (...and i'm not saying you are a bad parent). there are lots of kids in school to make impressions on your son (good or bad), and all their parents are responsible.
2007-01-30 14:43:45 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋